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Chapter 679 Chapter 679, sister-in-law

Looking at the people rushing in and out of the courtyard, Xia Ning, who had nothing to do, felt a little bored.

Because there was a wedding tomorrow, no one allowed her to be busy with work today. The village committee even asked her to rest at home for a few days.

Isn't this a disguised form of asking her to take wedding leave?

Xia Ning had no choice but to accept everyone's kindness and enthusiasm.

But her family didn't want her to get involved in the work, so she had to sit by the window boredly and watch everyone busy.

"Second sister-in-law, I made a pot of milk tea. Do you want a drink?"

Song Yunxi walked in carrying a tray with a pot of freshly brewed fragrant milk tea on it. Her second sister-in-law taught her this method.

This time happened to be afternoon tea time. Seeing that her second sister-in-law was bored alone, she specially made a pot of hot milk tea.

Not to mention, in such cold weather, drinking a cup of hot and sweet milk tea is really a happy thing.

"Okay, thank you Yun Xi." Xia Ning turned around and thanked her with a smile. She had indeed not had milk tea for a while.

"You're welcome, this is still the method you taught me."

As Song Yunxi spoke, she poured a cup of hot milk tea for Xia Ning. She didn't expect that she could make such delicious milk tea with just some tea leaves and milk.

"Second sister-in-law, do you like the drink?"

Xia Ning took the cup and took a sip, "Well, it tastes good. This is the taste. You controlled the proportion very well."

"That's good." After being praised by her sister-in-law, Song Yunxi happily drank from the cup.

So, the aunt and sister-in-law sat by the window, drinking milk tea and chatting about home affairs. This leisurely atmosphere was in contrast to the busyness in the yard.

"Sister-in-law, are you nervous?"

Xia Ning didn't react for a moment, "Huh? Why are you nervous?"

Song Yunxi asked sheepishly, "You and your second brother are getting married tomorrow. Aren't you nervous? I heard that girls' families are very nervous when they get married."

When she was in Kyoto before, when she went to send off her boudoir sisters to get married, they acted very nervous. They were either worried about this or that. They seemed to be afraid that something would go wrong at the wedding, and they were restless and thinking a lot.

So when she saw her second sister-in-law looking so leisurely, she couldn't help but be a little curious.

Hearing this, Xia Ning thought for a while and said calmly, "It's okay, I don't feel nervous now, maybe it's because I have been living with you.

And tomorrow's wedding is just going through the ceremony process, and I will eventually come back here. For me, I don't have the feeling of panic of going to a strange place and getting along with unfamiliar people. "

After all, her situation is different from that of local married girls. Before getting married, she had already lived with her husband's family, and they had developed a relationship with each other. They were almost like a family.

She was already familiar with all of them, including the place where she would live.

The most important thing is that she and Song Shaoqin are closely linked by a thousand-mile marriage. They were united through free love, not a blind marriage or a dumb marriage ordered by their parents.Therefore, she is not confused or afraid about life after marriage.

"That's right. Now that I think about it, I find that it's really good for you and your second brother to get to know each other before getting married. This will reduce a lot of strangeness and distance, and your life after marriage will inevitably be harmonious. Beautiful.”

Song Yunxi suddenly understood, and she became even more envious. Although the relationship between the eldest brother and sister-in-law was also very good, she envied the friendship between the second brother and the second sister-in-law even more. She always felt that their relationship had something different.

She couldn't describe this feeling, but it just made her envious.

Seeing the look of envy on her face, Xia Ning couldn't help but hold her hand and said, "You can do it too. Aren't you and Wen Qingsong already settled? Although the elders in the family helped you choose your marriage partner, you can do it too." Try to spend more time with him.

When you have nothing to do on weekdays, you can make an appointment to read a book or something together. Don't be embarrassed to hide. Girls should be more reserved, but they shouldn't be too passive. It's okay to take the initiative occasionally.

What's more, he is your fiancé, the person you will spend the rest of your life with in the future. There is nothing wrong with you being proactive with him. The reason why you should spend more time with him is so that we can get to know him in advance.

If in the process of getting along, we find that each other's personalities or concepts are different, then there is still a chance to make a new choice without having to force ourselves together. This is better than finding problems after marriage but not being able to repent, right?
Think about it, how long a life is. If the other person can't get along with you, how painful will it be to live together?It's better to get to know each other better before marriage. In fact, this is the most responsible way for you and him. "

Half a month ago, the Song and Wen families arranged a marriage between Song Yunxi and Wen Qingsong. The two were a perfect match in all aspects, and their parents were very satisfied.

If Yun Xi wants to choose a partner, judging from the comprehensive conditions, there is indeed no more suitable candidate than Wen Qingsong in the entire base.

Perhaps there is another level of consideration for the elders. If the younger generations of the two families get married, it will undoubtedly further deepen the relationship between the Wen family and the Song family.

Of course, the Song family is not the kind of family that relies on the marriage of children to stabilize its political power. The main reason for choosing Wen Qingsong is that he is more prominent among this generation, and all conditions are suitable for Yun Xi.

Moreover, everyone also asked Yun Xi for her own opinion. She was also satisfied with Wen Qingsong, so the two families made a marriage arrangement for them.

As for the wedding date, it is scheduled for May next year. After all, this is the wedding of Wen's family and grandson, so it is natural to make good preparations, so it has been reserved for more than half a year.

"Is that so? Let me think about it."

After listening to the second sister-in-law's words, Song Yunxi looked thoughtful. She originally came to accompany the second sister-in-law to relieve her boredom, but after hearing such words, she suddenly felt a sense of enlightenment.

In fact, the folk customs in the base are much more open-minded than those in the capital, and the atmosphere is also very good. There are not as many messy regulations and restrictions as there are in the capital.She also felt that she was too shy and a little too polite.

Maybe she should try to be brave and get to know him better?

Xia Ning encouraged, "Come on! You can do it. He will be your family from now on. You don't have to feel embarrassed. If you have anything you want to express, just tell him. The most important thing for two people to get along is communication. They should communicate more."

Although she grew up in the 21st century and accepted the female ideas of the new era, she lived in the feudal dynasty, so she could not judge everything based on modern ideas.

For example, when the elders of the Song family choose Yun Xi's husband, they have their own standards for looking at people. They also know better what kind of person Yun Xi is and what kind of talent is suitable for her.

Because their method is more suitable for this era, can we say that this method is completely wrong?
The only thing she can do is to impart some experience on how men and women get along so that she can gain more happiness in this marriage.

Take control of your happiness.

　Good night~
　　
　
(End of this chapter)