After the porcelain basin became fine, I was sent to the wild to do infrastructure construction

After the hunting team left, Xia Ning also started busy with her own affairs.

She brought Huoxiang to the residence of Sun Xiucai and his party. Since she brought them back to the village, she hadn't had time to care about their situation after they moved in.

But the group of them was lucky, they happened to come across the vacant thatched cottage in the village, which was more spacious than living in a tent.

"Miss Xia!"

Liu Yaya was sitting on the side watching her sisters sewing clothes, when she accidentally saw Xia Ning approaching, she immediately stood up excitedly.

Hearing the sound, everyone put down their needles and threads one after another, stood up and said, "Miss Xia."

"Are you making new clothes?" Xia Ning greeted with a smile.

"Yes, isn't it the new year? It's also more festive to buy a new suit."

Chen Chuncao replied that she was the oldest woman among them, and she was 24 years old this year, so in many things, everyone let herself be the representative.

When something happened at that time, her husband's family took the lead in pushing her out to stop the bandits. From that moment on, she was completely heartbroken. Even if she was lucky enough to keep her innocence, she was unwilling to go back to that ruthless family.

Anyway, she didn't have any concern or reluctance for that family, and she was even glad that they pushed her out, otherwise how could she have such a comfortable life now?

Xia Ning nodded, "It's a new year with a new look, you really should dress up well, and don't worry too much about food and clothing. Only when you are in good health can you create more possibilities in the future. When spring starts, you will also open up wasteland. Plant some food, and you won’t be hungry in the future.”

"Well, we will. Let's ask Village Chief Li as well." When it came to food, Chen Chuncao was very grateful. The village committee knew that they had no luggage, so they specially sent a hundred catties of potatoes for them to share. winter.

Coupled with the coarse grains shared equally from the bandits before, it was enough for their group to survive this New Year's Eve. When the weather warms up, they won't be afraid that they won't be able to find food.

Xia Ning turned to ask, "Are you all used to living in these two days?"

Hearing this, a group of women couldn't help expressing their thoughts.

"Okay."

"It's really nice here."

"Better than my house."

"Yeah, I haven't had such a comfortable life for a long time."

"I am now looking forward to the early spring, so that I can reclaim a few acres of land."

"I've made an inquiry, and I will go to the textile workshop to study in the next year."

"Miss Xia, thank you for bringing us here. I really like Baiyun Village."

"Me too"

Seeing that everyone likes this place so much, Xia Ning was also happy to hear it. It seems that everyone has not been idle these two days. They basically understand the situation in Baiyun Village, and even found their own goal.

So good!

Then she, the leader, can be completely relieved.

Xia Ning couldn't help seeing Liu Yaya beside her, and turned to ask Chen Chuncao, "How did you discuss the matter of the children?"

This time they brought six minors, the youngest was only about three years old, and a group of women took turns taking care of them along the way. Now that they have arrived in the village, they should have confidence in the whereabouts of the children.

Hearing this, Chen Chuncao immediately looked serious, "Miss Xia, we have discussed that we will take care of the children, and we want to adopt them."

"You adopted? But you are still so young, you will always be there in the future" Xia Ning was slightly surprised. You must know that in this feudal ancient times, a single woman raising a child was very controversial in the eyes of the world.

Besides, these people are only in their teens and twenties, and they are still in their youth, and they will definitely marry in the future. For the man, it is difficult to accept a child who is not related by blood. Bar?
Chen Chuncao said bluntly, "Miss Xia, I don't plan to remarry, I want to raise Yaya, and we will be dependent on each other from now on."

She has no expectations for marriage, and is full of resistance to having children. Naturally, she has given birth at her age, and she has two daughters.

But one died just after birth, all because of the daily fatigue and poor nutrition of the body, which made the baby weak and weak.

The other child had only been raised for more than four months, and was secretly taken away by her vicious mother-in-law before she was even one year old. She was angry and begged in a low voice, but the family was indifferent.

There is no way, the world is like this, a filial piety can make her lose her way of life, and there are not a few girls in the village who are strangled to death or sent away. No one will think there is anything wrong with this?

Even her natal family is unreliable, not to mention supporting her, but they will persuade herself not to make trouble, and remember to be a good daughter-in-law.

Therefore, she will not find a man again, and she is unwilling to have children.

"Miss Xia, I want to adopt Heidou. I have the same idea as Sister Chen, and I have no intention of remarrying."

"Miss Xia, I also want to adopt Xiaohua"

"I want to raise a chick"

Several women scrambled to express their thoughts.

Xia Ning took a look. If I remember correctly, four of the women who wanted to adopt a few children were married before, and two were innocent girls who had been defiled by bandits before.

From this point of view, we can understand their thoughts. Presumably they are very disappointed in marriage and men, and have fear or resistance in their hearts.

Married women don't say anything. After all, they have experienced marriage and know what's going on. She can understand that they don't want to experience it again. But those two girls who lost their innocence are still very young. There is still a long way to go, and it is full of infinite possibilities.

It would be a great pity if she lost hope in life and marriage early because of those bandits. She knew that even though she had told everyone to hide that bad experience before, it was a fact that she lost her innocence. Surely you can't hide it from the man, you're probably afraid that you will be rejected by others in the future, right?
At this moment, Xia Ning roughly understood the thoughts of those girls: instead of letting the man pick and choose and dislike her, it is better to stop the idea of ​​getting married, as long as she raises a child, she will always be able to rely on her when she gets old.

But Xia Ning felt that losing her innocence was not a serious crime, she just assumed that she had married once before remarrying, and those widows could remarry, so why couldn't they?
Aren't they all robbed of their innocence by men?
However, she also knew that it was useless to tell them any more at this time, and hoped that they would not see the bright side of marriage, nor would they be tempted to meet someone they liked. It would probably be difficult to change their current thinking.

Besides, for her, whether a person is happy or not has nothing to do with getting married or not. For some people, not getting married may be the best way of life.