When will I be the queen

Chapter 368 Video
"Now is a modern society. In our country, men and women are equal, and human rights are equal. There are still women who demand themselves according to the norms of good wives and mothers. I think that life is lived by myself, and I can do what I want and do what I want. A strong woman should be a strong woman, and if she wants to be a housewife, she should be a housewife. Even if there are influences from the original family and the social environment, it is their own choice. It is good to be a housewife, and a good wife and mother are great. Ah, if it is considered objectively that a good wife and mother is the result of women being suppressed, isn’t that too arrogant?”

Cai Cai scratched her chin, "Everyone is human, everyone is equal, life is chosen by oneself, and no one forces it. Should single strong women look down on good wives and mothers? My friend said there is a phenomenon called Jiao Wife, it sounds like the kind of love brain female cannon fodder that is often seen in bloody scripts, but they are all living well."

"Maybe the person in charge is forced to smile, but I know I am." Cai Cai felt that she seemed to be unreasonable. At that time, she was very angry when talking about Hong Hong. Now she is talking about Jiang Weiyuan and the others. Taiyue hurriedly finished, "That's right, a lot of things are actually quite complicated. There are many factors about the current situation of many women. Because they are free. You can't find everything from the original family, social environment, etc. There are many reasons for unhappiness and many reasons for happiness.”

Jiang Weiyuan actually felt that Cai Cai didn't quite understand what he said, and what Cai Cai said was different from what he said in general.To put it bluntly, it is just arguing.He said women in trouble, Cai Cai said that women have difficulties but also have many ways out, the concept is completely different.

This is actually the reason for Cai Cai’s personality. She seems to be unable to understand negative things.
"It is true that there are many reasons for happiness, but what we are going to talk about today is indeed those women who are not very happy." Jiang Weiyuan directly set the scope of the conversation.

"Think about it, unhappy women, what kind of misfortune will they have?" Then he added, "It's what you saw in the script."

Cai Cai said, "I don't even need a script. The women around me who obviously wrote the three words of unhappiness on their faces are all because of family interests. This is like those princesses in ancient times. They were born well and enjoyed the world. Enshrined, so it should be used as a political bargaining chip, compensation for defeat or reward for merit, and get married. With the blood of the royal family, as a woman, she will play, play, and give birth to a man who is lower than her in the class group. It seems that the princess is under the body, which is given by the royal family. A kind of hidden glory is not much stronger even if it is a princess of the Tang Dynasty."

"The women I have seen who are bound by family interests are sold as commodities at birth. They are good-looking and highly educated, so their value is naturally high. Marry out, get married, and then you must leave outstanding The heir, preferably a boy, serves as a closer bond that can maintain the two families. They never live for themselves for a day. But who can say that they have a bad life? Wearing gold and wearing jade, I don’t have to worry about food and clothing, but the biggest worry may be that the sun is so bright that I can’t drive a convertible.”

Cai Cai doesn’t know how much the average person earns, but it’s definitely not as much as the rich. Happiness, obviously very happy. But among these girls, many of whom I know have committed suicide."

Jiang Weiyuan really did not expect that Cai Cai would give such a realistic example.

"I am the misfortune of women I see in reality. Needless to say in the script, it has been played on TV." Cai Cai was a little thirsty, and Mei Zhang quickly handed her water, and at the same time felt that the time for the preparation meeting was too long. It's been a little longer, but it's obvious that the theme of the show hasn't been decided yet.

"Then do you think there is a magical way to keep women away from misfortune as much as possible?"

Cai Cai got entangled again, and the concept of misfortune is very broad, "Some people's misfortune may be the life that others desire. For this, I think it is better to reduce the complex of helping others. Zifeiyu An Zhiyu's joy." Why? Does everyone have to be unlucky?Maybe I don't think I'm unlucky.
"However, I think the most important thing for girls is to be brave and talk. Dare to speak. It's like what you said about the misfortune. It's because many girls have bravely spoken out, so everyone knows, ah, this is very Painful, this is unfortunate. But maybe there are still many girls who are afraid to say something when they encounter something, or some things are obviously wrong and abnormal, but no one says it, so they become normal by default anyway. It’s because I feel that whether happiness or not, I have to say for myself, which is the best.”

Zhan Ni laughed, "People want to save face. If you are not happy, you have to slap your face and say you are happy. You think it is brave to say it, but in fact, in the eyes of many people, it is a shame. As for happiness, because the world seems to be happy. There are still more unfortunate people, so the happy people should be quiet, don’t disturb other people’s unhappiness, hurt their hearts.”

Cai Cai shook his head and disagreed, "It's because there are more bad things and unhappy things. Everyone may encounter unhappy things every day, so I need to listen to and watch more happy things to comfort myself. Isn't this what used to be It is said on the Internet that the world is broken, and there are always people who sew and mend it? People who care about face should save face themselves, and it is a kind of bravery to maintain face projects for a long time.”

Zhan Ni couldn't be happier, Cai Cai is really, too naive, things may be that simple, but if it's really that simple, it would be great. Who wouldn't want to be brave?
Jiang Weiyuan suddenly said, "Well, let's set the theme of today's program as women and bravery. From words, thoughts, behaviors, conflicts, interests, etc., let's talk about it."

Zhao Tongtong was still thinking about Cai Cai's family background. Hearing this topic, he nodded in agreement. The bigger the topic, the easier it is to talk.The main reason is that Cai Cai's way of thinking is really weird.
She should come from a family that loves and protects her so much that she can have such a purely positive way of thinking.It seems invulnerable to all poisons. Everything is good.

It's also not enough time, that's all I can say.At least I already know how to communicate with Cai Cai, and I also know her personality traits, so the recording of the program will not be a big problem.

I rewrote the script, corrected it again, and then went to make-up separately.

Cai Cai was the first to come out. She changed her clothes and didn't put on makeup. She was the first to sit in the recording position. As soon as the lighting artist met her face, she started to get dizzy.

Uh, Cai Cai is too white, even if the others don't show up, based on experience, it's not easy to fight this light.I can't paint Cai Cai black or cover her light, so.
Jiang Weiyuan and the others were about to finish their makeup, and the makeup artist was notified to repaint it, which was gray. Fortunately, Zhan Ni also had experience. After seeing Cai Cai, she changed to the whitest foundation. Jiang Weiyuan also changed, but still It's not white enough. Zhao Tongtong didn't use foundation at first, so he quickly applied a layer.

But when the four of them sat down and adjusted the light, the lighting engineer still fiddled with it for a long time. In the end, he had no choice but to turn on the big lights for Jiang Weiyuan and Zhao Tongtong, so that the picture of them and Cai Cai in the same frame was pleasing to the eye. Not a lot.Zhanni changed into a white dress and brought a reflector with her. This reminded the lighting engineer, and also put a reflector under Jiang Weiyuan and Zhao Tongtong's feet. The director was very satisfied, and Jiang Weiyuan and the others could only endure the big reflection under the table. .

Cai Cai didn't realize it was her fault at first, but she realized it later when she was taken down by Zhou Qing and changed into a black dress.Hurry up to thank the three teachers.There is no need for an apology, if you feel a little tea-like, just thank you directly.

The recording site of the small round table, in the camera, is the outdoors with blue sky, white clouds and green grass, the soft cushions of the wooden sofa, a leisurely and fresh countryside.But in fact, even the audience can see that it is an indoor setting, but Jiang Weiyuan has not changed it after being complained about for so many years.This style may have been very trendy back then, but now, it’s really old-fashioned. After all, fake backgrounds are better looking than his.But Jiang Weiyuan persisted, the audience got used to it, and it became a symbolic feature.
Cai Cai was a little nervous after sitting down, and even more nervous after playing the board, and didn't speak at all.The director had to pause and let Cai Cai relax.Jiang Weiyuan and the others also comforted Cai Cai one after another, and Mei Zhang came up and squeezed Cai Cai's arms, telling her not to be afraid, and let her go, even if she said something wrong, it's okay, "Whatever you say is right, it doesn't matter." A bunch of people gave You have the bottom line.

Xianjun's video call had already been called, and Fang Qiao kept holding it up, but he didn't let Cai Cai know, and Xianjun didn't speak.I greeted the director and Jiang Weiyuan.Seeing Cai Cai so nervous, Xianjun not only found it funny, but also felt sorry for her.

National TV's popular show, The Eve of the Golden Mask, Jiang Weiyuan Zhanni, which one she shows alone will make her nervous.In the end, these three came together.
What Mei Zhang said to Cai Cai was what Xianjun asked him to tell.

Cai Cai, there is really no need to be afraid.
Realizing that he had delayed the recording, Cai Cai became more energetic at work, and he was no longer nervous. He took a deep breath, and after playing the board again, he smiled directly at the camera.There were three cameras taking pictures of Cai Cai, and the one that captured Cai Cai’s frontal smile was the one farthest away from Cai Cai’s side. The cameraman standing behind the camera was stunned. The director yelled several times in the headset, but nothing happened. When he came back to his senses, the colleague next to him pushed him before he realized that the director asked him to push forward.
After the opening remarks, Jiang Weiyuan took the lead, "Continuing our women's series topic today, I saw a news not long ago, saying that a middle-aged woman was brave and vicious, and she was very brave. My nanny told me a few days ago that her girl had three children. , I was so brave that I didn’t cry. Today my assistant told me that there was a girl on the subway who grabbed a pig’s hand and handed it to the patrol. She was super brave. I suddenly felt that it is very easy and difficult for a woman to get a brave evaluation. thing"

"If you are not afraid of bugs, if you dare to climb high, you will be said to be brave. Isn't this an easy thing? Isn't it difficult to give birth to a child and go to the gate of hell to catch bad people? But these easy things seem to bring A trace of eccentricity and contempt, Mr. Young, what do you think?"

Zhao Tongtong's nickname is Mr. Nian, so it's safest to leave the story to him.

"Eccentricity? It's true that a girl will be praised for being brave if she does something a little bit, and it's hard for a boy to hear a word of bravery even if his head is bloody."

"Hey, you're making an old mistake again. This is talking about women, why are you talking about men all the time?"

"Girls don't necessarily want this eccentricity. Boys can always get it. You must know that many welfare measures in modern society, including contraception, are designed to serve men. The original intention is to facilitate male compatriots and benefit female compatriots. That's all"

"It's not by the way, it's what the female compatriots fought hard for. Men and women are equal."

"How come no one praises the bravery of the boy when he took the worm?"

"This is also a gender definition. Men are defined as not afraid of bugs, and they are naturally brave. Women need to work hard to get it"

"A lot of women don't want it either"

Jiang Weiyuan looked at Zhanni, "Sister Zhan, tell me, as a woman, do you want to acquire the innate attribute of bravery?"

Zhan Ni shook her head and smiled, without saying a word, she turned to look at Cai Cai beside her, "What about you? Cai Cai, tell me."

Finally being cueed, Cai Cai nodded naturally, "I want it." After a pause, "Men and women are equal."

"." No, why did you suddenly turn on the mocking mode?

Jiang Weiyuan got stuck, and the director waited, but continued to record without seeing Jiang Weiyuan gesturing.

"Hahahaha, Cai Cai is really honest, has Cai Cai been praised for being brave again?"

Cai Cai thought seriously, "No."

"." Obviously, you kicked off the nose of that foreign boy who bullied you, and I praised you for being brave.This news is very hot now! !

Jiang Weiyuan was not sure if he should not say this, so he decided not to say it, following Cai Cai's words, "Oh, no, then do you want others to praise you for being brave?"

Cai Cai nodded, "It's a good compliment, why don't you want it?"

"." Why are you in mocking mode again.

Zhao Tongtong hurriedly answered, "Brave, a word that is inherently tied to men, is placed on women, and it seems that the effect of praise is doubled. It's like you are so brave. You are braver than men. Praising a woman like this is actually still Are you belittling me? If I were a girl, I wouldn’t want others to praise me for being brave, as if I were inferior to a boy.”

"Why are you talking about male compatriots again? Are you a fighter of the anti-male alliance again today? Be careful that tomorrow's hot search will scold you again."

"You're afraid that Hot Search will scold your show, but this is very common, don't you think?"

Zhan Ni continued, "Indeed, when I first started in the filming scene, the master of martial arts praised me, that is to say, I was braver than male actors. If you only say that I am brave, that's nothing. I am saying, I should not be as good as an actor, I should not be braver than an actor, an actor should be brave. When I heard this sentence, I was quite happy. When I am older, I will think back to this sentence , I started to feel sick, why pay it back.”

"But the reality is often like me. In many cases, I often don't realize that I have been discriminated against, and I am not worthy of the word brave. I only understand it later. To be straightforward, I also seem to be brainwashed. I am praised for being brave. I am actually very happy, and I subconsciously agree that I am not as brave as an actor, and many girls actually do not have this sensitivity. I think it is more important for girls to become sensitive than equality between men and women.”

"But sensitive girls are very annoying." Zhao Tongtong said bluntly.

Cai Cai's eyes widened, and he asked directly, "Why?"

Zhao Tongtong quickly explained, "I didn't say that. It wasn't me. For example, in reality, when women wear skirts and go up the stairs in summer, they will cover their skirts with their hands. This is a natural and ladylike action, but some people will say, It’s so pretentious, whoever looks at you, you’re so thoughtful. Among them, the most talked about are female compatriots who are also women. They even use themselves as an example, saying that I never cover my skirt when I go up the stairs , now the quality of people is very high, no one will look up, etc. This kind of mutual attack among women is often the reason why many women are afraid to be sensitive?"

"." You weren't that sharp when dealing with scripts, did you say too much?
Jiang Weiyuan glanced at Zhao Tongtong, not sure whether this part should be saved or not.

"This is not attacking each other!" Cai Cai firmly objected, "It's just being trapped in the limitations of one's own concept, unable to empathize with others, this is not attacking each other. The fundamental reason why women are afraid of being sensitive is because they are afraid of trouble. The result often requires self-certification. The process of self-certification often requires a lot of courage, and even a process of self-destruction. Therefore, if you want to cover up the skirt, you can cover it up, and if you don’t want to cover it up, you don’t need to cover it up. Say it!" The main target is an old lady who is happy! !
"." Cai Caiwei's words were clearly written on his face.

Uh, everyone is quite free. Cai Cai answered, and he said it very well. Jiang Weiyuan knew that this part of Zhao childhood couldn't be cut out.

"Self-certification is a process of self-destruction? Why did Cai Cai say that? As long as there are reasons and evidences, and it is clear, how can it be self-destruction."

"Because self-certification is a misunderstanding. In law, whoever advocates proves, why do you need to prove yourself in life? What I say is what I say, why should I prove it to you?"

"." Zhan Ni couldn't help laughing, good guy, this must have hit Cai Cai's hot spot.

really.Cai Cai doesn't like self-certification very much.

"I'm an actor, and I haven't been in the industry for a long time, but I have also experienced some things. Whenever there is any news, my agent and the company need to produce evidence. It is obviously someone else's rumor and frame. Why should I prove myself? But in order to prove that others are To spread rumors, my agents must throw away evidence. I am still a public figure with the right to speak, but those who need to throw away evidence in reality, how do they throw it away, and who do they show it to?"

Cai Cai frowned, "And when people testify against themselves, they will repeat the case repeatedly to prove that what they say is true, but the more they say, the more things that can be compared to doubts. This is the snowball getting bigger and bigger. No matter how you prove yourself, you can’t prove it. Isn’t this going to destruction? It’s still a snowball rolled out by yourself. Villains die because of talking too much, and good people will die because of talking too much.”

"." Uh, I know that poking you will explode, but you don't have to be so angry.

Jiang Weiyuan was very happy to activate Cai Cai, but Cai Cai revealed too much of her nature.
He made a gesture, and the off-site director called to stop and take a rest.

Jiang Weiyuan turned off the mic and reminded Cai Cai, "Don't be so angry, we just talk easily. If we are too emotional, the audience will also be affected. In this way, what we say can't be better listened to and cause us to think about the purpose of our conversation. , It is to make the audience think and let them realize the dilemmas and problems that women will encounter in society, rather than anger the audience. The audience is easy to empathize, and the audience is very kind.”

Cai Cai understood, she was indeed a little excited, Jiang Weiyuan spoke very tactfully, and she was full of emotions, she just took the lead, apologized, "I'm sorry" pursed her lips, "I seem to say that I went astray, the topic is about women." She Even men are mentioned.

Jiang Weiyuan waved his hand. This is not a big problem. He pointed to Zhao Tongtong, who had been having fun all the time, "He just throws out such words that are easy to stir up emotions. You can't follow his words and refute him. He said that women attack each other. You To say that women don’t attack each other is to follow him. If I were me, I would say that men are more likely to attack each other, such as attacking each other’s height and drinking capacity. Take the topic away.”

Can't help but remind Cai Cai, "When you encounter such inflammatory words in the future, don't answer them if you can. If you answer them, you have to use another inflammatory speech. You must not follow the logic of the other party. Go, or you will be a stepping stone for the other party, or you will be labeled as the opposite. If you form a confrontation, you will automatically become his target, and the other party will naturally use you to gain prestige, which is very unfavorable to you. Yes. Because you are unprepared, and the other party is prepared. Why give the other party a head? They are not worthy of using you as a stepping stone.

Cai Cai listened and nodded his thanks. He was really grateful for Jiang Weiyuan's suggestion.But in fact, she rarely has the opportunity to speak freely.
Start recording again.

"In fact, compared to bravery, women are born with other attributes of praise, such as gentleness, virtuousness, and kindness. When these words come out, they are tied to women. Moreover, this kind of binding has more girls than men. Born to be cute." Zhao Tongtong opened the topic again, "There are so many bundles to praise, why bother fighting for a brave one?"

Zhan Ni continued, "This is not a matter of indisputable, but women's bravery. Why should we fight for it? This is the key. Women can also be born with the praise of bravery. Is it acquiescing that women are acquired? This is really unfair."

"But this kind of unfairness is actually not important to women, right? It doesn't affect women's vital interests. Compared with things that should be fought for like social welfare, it's just a compliment. If you fight for it, you can How about it? Women are brave, and then? It’s really dangerous to let women rush to the front. What’s the difference between being brave or not? I think girls can be less brave, be timid, and be spirited A little, a little more sensitive, a little more, better."

After Zhao Tongtong finished speaking, he looked at Jiang Weiyuan, which meant to ask Jiang Weiyuan to answer.Cai Cai decisively shut up.

Jiang Weiyuan frowned, "Practical benefits are real benefits. Being praised for being brave doesn't mean you have to be really brave, but this thing should not be limited to men, but women can only get it at a lower level. Just like Sister Zhan It’s the same, but whatever women are fighting for, they have been treated unfairly. It really doesn’t matter whether they are praised for being brave, but if they are not treated fairly, this will not work. The meaning of fairness can’t just be material, And spiritual"

"I think it's not so much that women are fighting for a brave praise, it's better to say that they're fighting for a fairness with the same starting point as men. Men can also be praised for being gentle and virtuous, but just like you said, use words that praise women to praise men, Men are not happy, but feel insulted, but if women are praised for their bravery and masculinity, they will be even more honored. Ms. Zhan said that this is a kind of brainwashing, but I think this is the way of life throughout the ages. , the result that women have always been underestimated, patriarchal, not only in the family, but also in the praise of the different attributes of men and women."

Jiang Weiyuan sighed intentionally, "Let's just say, isn't it, women are cursing words, calling men like women, and praising women, like men."

Doubt flashed across Cai Cai's face, like a man, are you praising a woman?
Zhan Ni nodded the table and explained to Cai Cai, "When I was young, I heard from my family that they went to work in the fields and earned work points, just like they earn money by going to work now. Men usually earn ten centimeters a day, which means they are very capable. It's a man, and a woman can only get eight centimeters a day at most. But there are also some very capable ones, who can earn ten work points, and they will be praised that the lesbians are really capable, like men. Although it is basically mental work now, men and women are the same , so no one praises women like men anymore.”

Cai Cai has only read the events of that era in the script, and barely knows what work points are, but he doesn't know exactly what to do.But she understood Zhan Ni's explanation, so it's really a high evaluation to praise women and men?good guy.
Disgust written all over his face.

Jiang Weiyuan burst out laughing, "Cai Cai, what compliment do you most want to hear?"

Cai Cai blushed, "The legs are so long." She grows slowly, but fortunately her legs are well proportioned, so before she grew taller, she liked to be praised for her long legs.

"." Facing Cai Cai's face, I really can't exaggerate this sentence, I always feel that it is not very polite
"I thought it was you who are so beautiful." Zhan Ni said with a smile.

"I don't need to brag about it, I know it." Cai Cai said naturally.

"." You are indeed qualified to be so confident.

"Sister Zhan talked about the past and praised women as men, but in fact, it has the same meaning as now, praise women for bravery." Jiang Weiyuan pulled back the topic, controlled the topic, and looked at Zhao Tongtong, "So you said that women are praised It is not important to be brave or not. Sometimes, if a woman has the attribute of being brave, she will definitely get more opportunities at work. Opportunities mean benefits. Why is this not directly related? Indeed, many things They all exist to serve men, and if women want to obtain more benefits, they can only fight for it, even if it is a brave compliment."

Zhan Ni nodded, "Yes, I've seen it before. The director chooses actresses in group performances. Whoever is brave and dares to enter the water can get the role. Later, this girl lived by that role, and now she is developing in the circle. Very good actor."

Zhao Tongtong objected, "Is this an opportunity? This is life-threatening! Women have suffered much more physical damage than men due to menstruation, childbirth, breastfeeding, etc., and are even more dangerous, so why take more risks? I support women in fighting for More interests, but I object on the condition of endangering my own life."

"The filming is of course done under safety supervision. Besides, any industry has risks. How can this be life-threatening? You are discriminating against women in the name of caring for women. There are too many people like you It's gone." Zhan Ni sincerely disliked Zhao Tongtong.

Cai Cai was very happy to see it, and then Zhao Tongtong threw the topic to Cai Cai, "Then Cai Cai said that if women become brave, will they really gain more benefits?"

Of course, Cai Cai nodded directly, "Why not?"

Zhao Tongtong waved his hand, "No. It's good for a while, it's a benefit, but if you look at it for a long time, it will damage your life and health. Many girls get into the water and catch the cold, and it's difficult to conceive, which affects their fertility."

Uh, should I tell Cai Cai about this?
Jiang Weiyuan wanted to stop, but Cai Cai quickly said, "Fertility is not a woman's greatest ability."

Zhao Tongtong was stunned for a moment, no, "If you don't have the ability to have children, you will be unhealthy first, and secondly, if you can't have children, how can you get married?"

"Is marriage for birth? I thought it was for love." Cai Cai said again.

Uh, Zhao Tongtong was stunned again, "Do you think marriage is for love?" What a girly, dreamy idea.
"No, I think marriage is to maintain a stable relationship for the purpose of bundling interests"

"." This sentence stunned everyone in the audience.

Mei Zhang was a little dumbfounded.After regaining consciousness, I quickly grabbed the director and shouted to stop, this episode must not be broadcast! ! !

The director stopped shouting to save face, but still many people didn't recover.

No, you are cheating, you just said it was for love, why did you say it was to tie up interests and stabilize the relationship?

Zhan Ni was full of surprise, and asked Cai Cai, "What on earth are you thinking?" It was inappropriate for her to ask such a question, but she really couldn't help it! ! !Your two sentences are completely opposite.

Cai Cai drank water, "Aren't children said to be the fruit of love? Isn't it for love to get married and have children?"

But Jiang Weiyuan was confused, "Then how do you explain the last sentence?"

"It's my own idea." Oh, "It's not my own idea, it's my family's idea, I think it's right." Then Cai Cai realized that she said it too fast and there was a misunderstanding, "Everyone Isn’t it said that marriage is for love, and children are the crystallization of love. So I thought it was for love.”

(End of this chapter)