As a matchmaker, I'm not convinced by anyone

On the high-speed train to the provincial capital of Guangxi Province, Yang Dongtai and Wang Tiantian sat side by side. The two started from online novels and talked about their favorite genres of novels. This same hobby made the two chat very speculatively.

Originally, Wang Tiantian and her mother had already decided to get off at the next stop, and then headed home. After all, the person they wanted to see had already been met, so there was no need to go to Gui Province.

But what they didn't expect was that not only the matchmaker they were going to meet was in the car, but also Wang Tiantian's matching partner was also in the car. Now that the two sides chatted so speculatively, how could they be willing to get off at the next stop!

When people are in pain, time seems extremely long, and when people are happy, time becomes very short.

Yang Dongtai and Wang Tiantian chatted for several hours, until the broadcast reminded that Nanning station had arrived, they just woke up like a dream, and then looked at each other and smiled.

In just a few hours of chatting, both sides left a very good impression on each other.

"I'll get off the car later, let's go together. I'll arrange a hotel for you and auntie first, then put your luggage away, and then go out to have some supper together. What do you think?" Yang Dongtai asked.

Wang Tiantian didn't answer and asked instead: "Aren't you going to your relative's house first?"

Through the previous chat, Wang Tiantian naturally knew that Yang Dongtai's trip to Gui Province was to visit relatives, so he asked this question.

Yang Dongtai smiled and said: "You can visit relatives at any time. I will call my aunt later and tell her to see her again tomorrow."

Wang Tiantian smiled. Yang Dongtai's choice made her feel that she was valued. She said happily, "Okay, then I'll go back to my seat to get my luggage."

Yang Dongtai nodded and said, "Yes!"

……

Ten minutes later, Jiang Feng and others walked to the exit.

It was nearly ten o'clock in the evening. Jiang Feng looked at Wang Tiantian's mother and daughter and Yang Dongtai, and said, "It's getting late, so I'll go home first. Call me if you have any problems."

"Okay, goodbye, Master Jiang!"

"See you!"

……

Although it was a bit late, Jiang Feng went to the confinement center first to meet his wife and son.

Huang Lingwei looked at her busy husband, gave him a loving kiss, and then said: "It's so late, you just go home and rest, why come to see us?"

Jiang Feng put his arms around his wife's waist and said with a smile: "When I come back from the outside, if I don't see you and my son first, I always feel bad. I'm afraid I won't be able to sleep."

Huang Lingwei said with a smile, "You are the only one with sweet lips."

Jiang Feng laughed and said, "I just tasted it, your mouth is even sweeter!"

Huang Lingwei spat at him, and then the couple had a gentle conversation for a while and whispered something.

After about ten minutes, Huang Lingwei said: "Okay, it's getting late, you should go back, wash and sleep!"

Jiang Feng nodded, and said with some reluctance: "You have been sitting in confinement for a while, and I feel tormented. Fortunately, you will be confinement in a few days, and then I can sleep with my arms around you!"

Huang Lingwei gave him a charming look, and said, "Just want to hug me to sleep?"

Jiang Feng blinked, and said with a chuckle: "Of course not. I haven't eaten seafood for a long time, and my mouth has long been hungry. Now I want to have a good meal."

Huang Lingwei said with a reddish face: "Okay, for the sake of your good performance during this time, when I am out of the month, I will reward you with a seafood feast, so that you can eat until you are full."

Jiang Feng laughed and said, "That's what you said, remember to prepare more fresh abalone, this stuff is delicious and juicy, and you will never get tired of eating it."

"..."

The young couple chatted a few words before Jiang Feng left the confinement center and returned to Xipai Yujiang.

……

the next morning.

Jiang Feng called Wang Tiantian and Yang Dongtai respectively to ask them what they thought of their blind date. Needless to say, both parties expressed their satisfaction and are currently in further contact.

This was all in Jiang Feng's expectation, he was just asking routinely.

From then on, Jiang Feng lived a life of three points and one line.

In a blink of an eye, it has been 42 days since Huang Lingwei entered the confinement center. Her confinement life can finally be declared over, and she will move back home. She only needs to go to the confinement center on time every day for rehabilitation training.

Originally in the rural areas of Bailiang County, if a son is born, when the child is full moon, many people will choose to hold full moon wine.

However, that is the custom in the past. In recent years, fewer and fewer people choose to hold full moon wine.

The reason is very simple. When a banquet is held, relatives and friends all need to give money as gifts. Nowadays, many couples get married with a child. It has only been a few months since the wedding, and there is a full moon wine. Money" behavior, many people can't save face.

Therefore, Jiang Feng's three brothers and sisters had no intention of holding a full moon wine when they had a son.

Jiang Fei and Jiang Xue are fine. If Jiang Feng holds a full moon wine, it will really mobilize the crowd. I don't know how many big shots will be alarmed. It is really unnecessary.

On the first night when Huang Lingwei moved back home, she kept her word and prepared a large table of sumptuous seafood dinner by herself, so that her husband, who hadn’t eaten seafood for a long time, had a full meal. Call it juicy, and call it delicious.

……

Some people say that life is like a bitter gourd. Even if it is soaked in water, offered in a temple, and put in the mouth, the bitterness will not diminish. This is the essence of life’s bitterness.

It is also said that life is like a glass of boiled water, adding honey will make it sweet, adding salt will make it salty.

In fact, the pain and happiness in life come from your own heart.

For example, there was an old mother whose husband died early, and she raised her two sons alone with great pains.

The eldest son burns charcoal, and the second son sells umbrellas.

The old man worried about her son's livelihood every day. When it rained, she worried that her elder son's charcoal would not be sold; when it was sunny, she was worried that her second son's umbrella would not be sold.

In this way, she lived in worry and anxiety every day, and finally one day she fell ill.

Later, someone enlightened the old mother: "You are so blessed, whether it is sunny or rainy, it is a good business for your son."

After hearing this, the old lady finally turned her worries into joy.

From this little story, we can see that pain and happiness are actually the embodiment of a state of mind.

For example, in reality, many people are afraid that their friends will suffer, and they are also afraid that their friends will drive away. With this kind of mentality, it is difficult not to suffer.

Just like the Internet buzzword: "Seeing you make money is more uncomfortable than me losing money!"

So if you want to live a happy life, a good attitude is the key.

If you have a good attitude, everything will be fine, if you relax your mind, everything will be safe.A good life is not as good as a good attitude. Having a good attitude is equal to having happiness.

Treat life with a positive attitude, try to think of the best in everything, don't always add sorrow to yourself, and you will naturally feel happy in your heart.

Lin Shun understood all these principles. Even before the age of 25, he didn't know what pain was.

However, only after Lin Shun got married did he know what pain is.

Marrying a woman with a different personality as his wife was really hard. Lin Shun couldn't figure out why his wife would argue with him about trivial matters all day long.

For example, one day, he bought a cooked vegetable to eat back, but when he was eating, his wife scolded him with a stinky face that the cooked vegetable he bought had no meat but bones, and scolded him for being so stupid that he was cheated to death I didn't even know, so I just kept scolding and scolding him for several minutes because of the cooked dishes worth more than a dozen and 20 yuan.

Lin Shun really didn't want to understand, even if he lost money, wouldn't it be enough to remind him?Do you need to scold him for several minutes with a stinky face?
For another example, when his wife forgot to bring the key and called him, he couldn't leave because he had something to do, so he couldn't go back to open the door for her at the first time, and in the end he scolded him again.

There are so many things like this, Lin Shun really can't figure it out, why don't we talk about it?Why do you have to change your face and scold him at every turn?
It is said that the clay figurine is still a bit angry, and Lin Shun is not a masochist, so it's okay to be scolded once or twice for no reason, and of course he can't stand it if he does it often.

So, the quarrel is inevitable!
After only three years of marriage, Lin Shun felt extremely tired. When they were dating, he only knew that his wife had a bad temper, but he didn't expect her temper to be so bad.

Before getting married, Lin Shun was somewhat disapproving of the classic saying in "The Besieged City" that "marriage is a besieged city, people outside the city want to enter, and people inside the city want to get out", and felt that it was exaggerated.

But now, Lin Shun felt that this classic quote was really written in his heart.

Before getting married, Lin Shun saw other couples arguing in public, and he really couldn't understand why those couples would do such a shameful thing.

But now Lin Shun understands that quarrels between husband and wife are not something you can stop fighting if you don't want to, just like a war between countries, you can't just stop fighting if one party says they don't want to fight.

In short, three years of married life made Lin Shun physically and mentally exhausted. He wanted to divorce countless times, but he endured it again and again.

The main reason is that I don't want my daughter to grow up in a single-parent family.

Because Lin Shun has read related articles, he knows that children who grow up in single-parent families are prone to various problems, which will seriously affect the children's life.

Therefore, every time when the thought of divorce came up, Lin Shun thought of his lovely daughter, and gritted his teeth to kill that thought.

But living with people with different personalities is really uncomfortable. When his wife "snarls" again because of a trivial matter, Lin Shun finally can't stand it anymore!
"Li Jia, let's get a divorce!" Lin Shun said in a very calm tone what he wanted to say two years ago.

Li Jia glanced at her wimpy and useless husband, apparently not expecting him to have the courage to propose a divorce, she couldn't help but sneer and said, "Okay, that's what you said, whoever stays with him is a dog."

Lin Shun said indifferently: "The daughter belongs to me, the house belongs to me, the car belongs to you, half of the cash is paid for each person, and you don't have to pay for the child's support. If you agree, then tomorrow we will go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to file a divorce application."

Li Jia responded straightforwardly: "Okay, let's do it this way, I have no objection." Only the down payment was given for the house, and it still needs to be paid for for more than [-] years!
Seeing her readily agreeing, Lin Shun also understood that she wanted to divorce a long time ago.

If you think about it, if you don't want to get a divorce, but want to live a good life, then she will definitely not find fault with him every now and then, arguing with him over trivial matters.

After agreeing to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to fill out the divorce application tomorrow morning, the two stopped communicating and took out their phones to watch.

……

noon.

Happy Dating Agency.

Just when Jiang Feng walked out of the office and was about to go back to have dinner with his wife, a very special female guest came in from the dating agency. The reason why this female guest was said to be special was because she was wearing a school uniform and she was clearly young , also about fourteen or fifteen years old.

Seeing this female student walk in, the girl in charge of welcoming guests asked aloud, "Student, who are you looking for?"

At this time, the young female student had already seen Jiang Feng coming out of the office, her eyes lit up, and she said, "Sister, I'm here to find brother Jiang Feng."

When Jiang Feng heard the words, he took over the conversation and asked, "Little sister, what do you want from me?"

The young female classmate said nervously: "Brother Jiang Feng, my name is Liu Xiaoye. I read your profile on the Internet and know that you are not only good at matchmaking, but also good at marriage mediation. I think... I think..."

Seeing that she was a little speechless, Jiang Feng comforted her: "Sister Xiaoye, don't be nervous, you haven't eaten yet, right? Why don't we find a place to eat first, and then chat while eating?"

Liu Xiaoye said with some embarrassment: "Brother Jiang Feng, I'm still a junior high school student and I don't have the ability to treat you to a big meal. If my brother doesn't dislike it, can I treat you to a fast food?"

Jiang Feng laughed and said: "Sister Xiaoye, how can I let you, a junior high school student, treat me to dinner? What do you want, brother, please eat!"

Liu Xiaoye said seriously: "That can't be done, I still have something to ask brother for your help, how can I let brother invite me to dinner, this meal should be invited by me."

Looking at Liu Xiaoye with a serious face, Jiang Feng pondered for a while, and said, "Okay, but I don't want to eat fast food, I want to eat old friend noodles, or sister Xiaoye, please treat me to a bowl of old friend noodles!"

Now a fast food basically costs two or thirty yuan, but old friend fans can get it for seven or eight yuan. For a junior high school student, the financial burden can be greatly reduced.

Liu Xiaoye nodded and said, "Okay, brother Jiang Feng, then let's go eat old friend fans."

So, Jiang Feng took out his mobile phone and called his wife, saying that he would not go back to eat at noon, and then walked to an old friend's noodle shop next to him with Liu Xiaoye.

One person ordered a bowl of old friend noodles, and sat down in a corner.

After eating a few mouthfuls of powder, Liu Xiaoye said: "Brother Jiang Feng, I mustered up the courage to come to you today. I want to ask you to help me mediate my parents' marriage. I wonder if it is possible?"

Jiang Feng had just glanced at her profile, and was not surprised by her request: "Sister Xiaoye, tell me first, what happened to your parents' marriage?"