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Chapter 209 Lin Weiguo's Persuasion
The fact that Chen Xiangxiu moved out and did not live with her husband and in-laws also caused heated discussions in the family courtyard. Many people thought that Chen Xiangxiu was not filial at all, and even contradicted her in-laws and ran away.

"Isn't it just that she has a job? Is she the only woman who has a job in our family home? Who doesn't do anything like her, and the mother-in-law talks back to the mother-in-law after saying a few words? Just talk back, and move out?"

"That's right, it's as if she has a job alone. Doesn't my daughter-in-law also work in the hospital? Doesn't she still have to wash clothes and cook when she gets home? Doesn't she have to take the children to clean the house? Is she the only one who is precious?"

"How can men do laundry and cooking? They train hard, work hard, where can they work when they get home?"

The above remarks were made by some old ladies in the family courtyard. They are all mother-in-laws, and they don't like Chen Xiangxiu's daughter-in-law who contradicts her mother-in-law at all.

Even if you don't do housework, you dare to run back to your mother's house and not come back?How dare you contradict your in-laws?No mother-in-law likes such a daughter-in-law.

Of course, some young daughters-in-law also think that what Chen Xiangxiu did is wrong. Maybe they don't think it's wrong for her to contradict her mother-in-law, but instead of doing housework, she leaves it to her own man. Such an approach is really embarrassing to their women up.

"How could she have the nerve to let a man work? She didn't have a son, so how dare she let a man do this and that?"

"Isn't she just relying on herself to have a job? It's as if no one has a job? Pang Xiuli in our family home, she is still a doctor in the hospital. She is so busy every day. Doesn't she have to wash clothes, cook and serve men when she comes home? ? Is she Chen Xiangxiu Jingui?"

The incident caused by Chen Xiangxiu was actually discussed by many people. In fact, many people also envied her and admired her courage.

Of course, many women also hope that their men can help when they are too tired to do housework.But in many cases, men seldom consciously help their daughter-in-law with housework, and basically default to housework as women's work.

Just like there are more than a dozen young daughter-in-laws in the family home, they all have jobs, either as teachers in schools, or in art troupes, or as doctors and nurses in hospitals, or in logistics, etc.

They also have jobs and have to go to work every day, but they have to do housework by themselves when they get home.

They were very envious that Lin Weiguo could help Chen Xiangxiu with laundry and cooking.

"Chen Xiangxiu, come down for me! How dare you run back to your mother's house? You let your man work and make her lose face. What's the matter with you? How dare you run back to your second brother's house for so long? Our family, Weiguo, is your man?" Mother Lin listened to the rumors outside, scolded her daughter-in-law with a few old ladies who had a good relationship, and hurried over to Chen Xiangxiu after being teased by them.

"At the beginning, you were the one who shamelessly went to the army to look for our family's Weiguo. Now you are married and you make trouble like this? What do you think of yourself? What do you think of my family's Weiguo?"

"Chen Xiangxiu, come down for me! Go home and think about what you should do as a daughter-in-law?" Mother Lin cursed.

Chen Xiangxiu was approached by Lin's mother not long after returning to her second brother's house from "off work". She was really annoyed. It's only been ten days, and she will have to spend a few months with her in-laws in the future. She is really annoyed.

"Mom, why would it be embarrassing for Wei Guo to help me with some housework?" Chen Xiangxiu walked out helplessly, stood on the balcony and looked at Lin Mu downstairs and said.

"Why don't you lose face? How can he, a big man, wash and cook? Washing and cooking are women's jobs. How can a man do it?" Mother Lin said as a matter of course.

"Why is cooking a job that men shouldn't do? The chef of the meal is still a man. Why don't you say that the chef of the meal is ashamed of cooking?" Chen Xiangxiu asked.

"Can that be the same? It's the job of a chef."

"Why is it different? Isn't it all cooking? A male chef cooks just because his job is not ashamed, oh, it's a shame when a man comes home to help his wife and children cook a meal? Isn't it all cooking? What's different?" Chen Xiangxiu asked.

"It's different if it's different! It's work for a chef to cook at the meal time. Do you think any chef can still cook when he returns home? Aren't they all made by their women?"

"The housework is done by women. You embarrass Wei Guo so much. I told you a few words and you ran back to your mother's house. Why are you so angry?" Mother Lin said with a ignorant daughter-in-law , "You are still living at your second brother's house for four or five days, do you really regard Wei Guo as your man?"

"You're married, and you've been running back to your mother's house for so long, don't you want to live with Weiguo anymore?" Mother Lin cursed, "Sure enough, you're a restless person, and now relying on our family Weiguo to have a formal marriage. Work, are you going to kick our family and defend the country?"

Chen Xiangxiu frowned and said, "Mom, do you have to ruin my reputation? Don't you want me to marry Wei Guo?"

Chen Xiangxiu's feelings for Lin Weiguo are not deep enough to endure all kinds of slander and slander from Lin's mother for him. If Lin's mother really continues to ruin her reputation like this and doesn't want her to feel better, then she will definitely not Maybe continue to live with Lin Weiguo.

"Mom, do you have to destroy my marriage with Weiguo and replace Weiguo with a daughter-in-law who pleases you?" Chen Xiangxiu took a deep breath and said disappointedly, "If this is what you think , I respect you."

She didn't love Lin Weiguo to the point of losing herself. If this marriage is full of all kinds of bad things, she doesn't need to continue.

She saw the brilliance of women 50 years later at the hotel, and she would not be bound by marriage just because she was in this era.

"Mom!" Lin Weiguo heard that his mother ran to trouble Chen Xiangxiu again, so he hurried over to stop his wife and mother from continuing to fight against each other.

"Mom, let's go back first and have a good talk." Lin Weiguo really didn't expect that he just relaxed a little bit, and the relationship between his mother and daughter-in-law was about to become incompatible. He really had a headache.

As for his mother and daughter-in-law, he hasn't spent too much time together, but after all, he has been with his mother for more years, and his affection for his mother is definitely deeper than that of his daughter-in-law.

But Lin Weiguo is not the kind of person who completely favors his mother and ignores his daughter-in-law's grievances because of a deeper relationship. He only hopes that even if his mother and daughter-in-law can't get along peacefully, they won't really reach the point where they can't get along.

Lin Wei country.

"Mom, do you want me to divorce Xiangxiu before you're willing?" Lin Weiguo looked at his mother with a headache and asked, "You hate Xiangxiu and me so much, and you have to make trouble for our young couple to be reconciled? "

Lin's mother was very angry when she heard this, and she was very sad when she was angry. She felt that her son's questioning of herself like this really hurt her heart.

"Isn't it all for your own good? Chen Xiangxiu even asked you to wash her clothes and cook for her. How can you, a big man, do such a thing?" Mother Lin said.

"When I wash and cook, I don't do all of them for her. Don't the clothes I wash also belong to your parents? Don't my parents also eat together when I cook? I didn't cook for her alone."

"Besides, I'm not the only man who washes and cooks in the family courtyard. Lin Tuan next door, Zhang Lian, and so-and-so...they also help their daughter-in-law with laundry and cooking at home, not just me Do it alone."

"Mom, we are able to do a lot of work as soldiers, and we are also able to do the work at home, why is it embarrassing?" Lin Weiguo said helplessly, "Xiangxiu has to go to work every day, and it is also very hard after a day. , if I have nothing to do, I can help her, why am I ashamed?"

"After I go out on a mission, Xiangxiu will definitely need to take care of the family and the outside world. She will work harder like that. I am considerate and considerate of her, and it is not something to be ashamed of." Lin Weiguo said.

Speaking of which, Lin Weiguo walked behind his mother, pressed her on the shoulder and said, "Mom, I think you have to work very hard every day, and you have to wash clothes in winter. I also feel sorry for my own mother. I A big man with rough skin and thick flesh doesn't have to be afraid of the cold water, and helping with laundry is considered filial piety to parents."

"You don't need to be angry. I feel sorry for my own mother when I help with the laundry, okay?" Lin Weiguo learned the massage technique from the doctor, so Lin's mother felt very comfortable after being pressed on her shoulders, and she gradually relaxed after listening to her son's words down.

"Let's talk about cooking. I'm pretty good at cooking. Mom, you've cooked for us all these years. Why would I be ashamed if I wanted to cook for you and dad after I learned it?"

"I didn't make it specially for my daughter-in-law. Isn't this why I want to be filial to my parents after my parents come?" Lin Weiguo said softly, "When your two elders didn't come, I didn't cook or wash. Clothes, didn’t I do this because you came here?”

"I did this to honor my parents. Why is being filial to one's parents considered ashamed?" Lin Weiguo persuaded, "Mom, if someone says that your son is ashamed of washing clothes and cooking, you should tell them, son. This is filial piety to one's parents, what's so shameful about filial piety?"

"Helping my daughter-in-law do the laundry is just incidental. We all eat together. It's no big deal for my daughter-in-law to eat a little of the rice cooked for your elder brother." Lin Weiguo said.

Lin's mother listened to her son's words very well, although she was still very angry with Chen Xiangxiu, she did nothing and let her son do it, but the son said that he was filial to his parents, not because he was a daughter-in-law in his heart, and she calmed down a little down.

"Wei Guo, do you really work because your parents are here?" Mother Lin asked.

"Of course. I've been serving as a soldier outside these years, so I didn't honor your elders. Now that your elders come to live with me, don't I want to take this opportunity to honor your elders?"

"Didn't your mother often do things like washing clothes and cooking for me? Now that I've grown up, isn't it natural for me to repay my own mother?" Lin Weiguo said.

Lin Weiguo observed his own mother's expression, and seeing that she was not as angry as before, he breathed a sigh of relief and quickly said something nice to his wife, "Mom, after all, Xiangxiu was raised by my father-in-law and mother-in-law, so be more delicate." And it should."

"She is also a working person now. When she is too busy and doesn't want to work, I should be considerate." Lin Weiguo said, "Don't worry, your son has not been wronged, but she..."

"Do you want to marry a daughter-in-law and forget your mother again? Say good things to her again?" Mother Lin immediately became upset when she heard her son talking and abducted her to Chen Xiangxiu.

"Mom, Xiangxiu is my daughter-in-law after all. Isn't my son and me the one who made the mess too ugly? Mom, do you have the heart to see your son have a bad life?" Lin Weiguo said, "And if our family makes too ugly, the people above The leader will also warn me."

"If the family relationship is not handled well, how will we handle the relationship between comrades-in-arms in the future? If the leaders are disappointed in me, my future will also be affected." Lin Weiguo said.

"Is that so?" Mother Lin frowned and asked her son after hearing this, "Will your future really be affected?"

Although Lin Weiguo is not Mother Lin's favorite son, but he is the son who can save her face the most, and she still prefers this son a little bit.

Her son was a soldier in the army, and she is still an officer now. She is very respectable in her hometown.Moreover, the son's position is high, and the allowance will be high, and he will send her money and things at that time.

If her son's future is affected, won't she be able to receive less money and things from him in the future?
Even if it's not for her son, but for her own sake, it can't affect her son's future. She must let her son go further and further, with a bright future, so that she can live a good life.

"Yes. If my family relationship gets too big and the influence is not good, my future will definitely be affected." Lin Weiguo said.

"If there is an opportunity for promotion and it turns out that there is a lot of trouble because of family relations, the leaders will also consider people who have a harmonious family on the other side. After all, my abilities are not much different from the other party's, so what depends on family relations and disharmony gone."

After listening to her son's words, Mother Lin frowned even deeper. She really didn't expect that such an argument between herself and Chen Xiangxiu would have such an impact.

"And mom, after all, Xiangxiu is a well-organized woman now, and it's not good for you to mess with her too badly and ruin her reputation."

"If you don't like Xiangxiu, my son doesn't insist that you like her. Treat her as well as your own son. If you don't like Xiangxiu, you can ignore her. Don't quarrel or fight. Let others Just watch the fun."

"Mom, don't you know that during this period of time, many people in the family courtyard watched our family's excitement? When those people said Xiangxiu was wrong, wouldn't they say you?"

Mother Lin frowned even more when she heard her son say that those people would talk about herself behind her back, and she forgot about it.

When she was in her hometown, because she had lived there for many years, it was already her instinct to manage her own reputation.But after arriving in the army, maybe she subconsciously felt that she was in a strange environment, and those people didn't know her for too long like those in her hometown, so she got carried away.

But she had to admit that her son was right.

When the people outside said that her daughter-in-law was not good, they would never fail to say how vicious she was as a mother-in-law, and how bad she was as a mother-in-law.

"Mom, I don't expect you to be close to Xiangxiu, but don't quarrel or fight again. Letting people outside watch the fun and affect your son's future, isn't it worth the candle?" Lin Weiguo persuaded.

Lin's mother was persuaded by her son. Even though she really didn't like Chen Xiangxiu, she had to admit that she didn't like being watched by others even more.

And it has affected her son's future, can she still live such a good life?Chen Xiangxiu's work is also gone. Without her income, will the son send her less money?

No, for her own sake and for her son's sake, even if she couldn't treat Chen Xiangxiu as her own, she couldn't make such a fuss for others to watch.

(End of this chapter)