Actually I just want to act

Chapter 457 The Difference Between Confident and Unconfident
"why is it you again?"

The dorm aunt of Yanda frowned when she saw Fang Jiming.

Fang Jiming said with a smile, "Auntie, it's not me!"

"Don't have a hippie smile on your face, students should study hard and hang around the little girl all day, aren't you ashamed?" The dormitory aunt was ruthless.

Fang Jiming restrained his smile, and said seriously: "Auntie, this study should be a combination of work and rest! Besides, after a few years, studying is not the first priority, but finding a partner is the first. I think Auntie You have children too, do you have a partner?"

The dormitory aunt raised her eyebrows, and said coldly: "My daughter is only in junior high school, if you dare to find someone, I can't beat her to death!"

"Um... What I mean is that the winner in life is someone who has a partner. Auntie, I won't tell you anymore. I have a partner." Fang Jiming saw Lin Qingyi, quickly left a word, and ran away.

Lin Qingyi looked at Fang Jiming who was running over, and asked in a low voice, "Why are you arguing with the housekeeper?"

Fang Jiming said aggrievedly: "It's not noisy, I just discussed with her about finding a partner."

Lin Qingyi blushed, and slapped him a few times: "No shame or impatience, what is she looking for, someone with a family and children."

"I mean, there are a lot of girls in Yanda University who have no match. If you can't find them in the university, it will be even harder to find them when you go out." Fang Jiming is not aimless, because he only read a news in his previous life, what is Huaqing? Graduates of Yanda University organized a blind date meeting for highly educated people to solve the problem of single men and women with high education.Later, because Huaqing University and Yanda University could not be found, the scope had to be expanded to famous schools such as Fudan University, Wuhan University, Nankai University, and Zhejiang University.

"Nonsense, everyone is excellent, sometimes even I feel inferior, why can't they find a partner?" Lin Qingyi didn't believe it.

"These highly educated people just want to find like-minded partners, how can it be so easy." Fang Jiming knows that the more highly educated people are, the harder it is for ordinary people to understand their spiritual world.However, people need to be understood.So, I would rather be single than make a living. This is the pain of highly educated people.Fortunately, as China's universities continue to expand their enrollment, advanced master's education continues to improve, and the number of highly educated people is increasing, this problem is no longer a problem.

"It really makes sense." Lin Qingyi also admitted, "In our dormitory on the first floor of Yanda University, as far as I know, there are only three girls including me who have partners. They have been together since high school, and the rest are busy. learning, no one takes the initiative to get in touch with this aspect.”

"That's why!" Fang Jiming threw out his remarks again, "Especially in big cities, there will be more and more unmarried leftover women over 30 in big cities in the future."

"Impossible?" Lin Qingyi wondered, "How could this be?"

"Think about it, everyone yearns for big cities in the future, but men and women are different. Men can't find them in big cities in order to get married and have children. They will go back to their hometowns. But girls, who have seen the prosperity of big cities, rarely think about it." They go back to their hometown and settle down. But once they can’t find someone to marry in a big city, their youth will be exhausted, and it will be very, very difficult when they are in their 30s.

Because new young people flood into big cities every year, but are the young men who come in willing to marry older girls?Most are unwilling.

Afterwards, batch after batch of boys made money and returned to their hometowns, and the older leftover girls were still 'holding on' in the big cities.In fact, whether to marry or not is a personal choice, and there is nothing wrong with it.But it is very difficult to want to get married while unwilling to make sacrifices, so this is why there are more and more leftover women in big cities.

I read a report saying that since the beginning of the new century in China, the ratio of male to female births has been 113:100, which is very scary.Looking at the data, there will be more than 1000 million singles, but in fact, in big cities, there are more older leftover women. "

Lin Qingyi thought about it carefully, and then said: "So you mean, in order to get married, girls have to sacrifice?"

"That's not to say, when you meet someone you like, it's okay to sacrifice, even willingly. But if you don't like it, you can't force the sacrifice." Fang Jiming said with a smile, "It depends on the individual, every choice of a person, even if It's an insignificant choice, and it will affect the future destiny. How to choose to live your own life is your own business, and no one else can intervene?"

"That's the truth." Lin Qingyi nodded, "But I think, I still can't let it go."

"It's true that you can't settle for it. Feelings can't be worth three words, 'I'm willing'." Fang Jiming said with a chuckle.

Lin Qingyi blushed and said, "Are you thinking about something bad?"

Fang Jiming held her catkin and said with a smirk, "I thought of the day you wore a wedding dress and said 'I do' to marry me."

"Hey, who is going to marry you?"

Lin Qingyi said so verbally, but she didn't shake off Fang Jiming's hand.

Talking and laughing, the two walked out of the Yanda campus and walked a few more streets before getting into the Mercedes like thieves.

As a driver, Zhu Jun is no stranger to it.

In fact, Zhu Jun didn't understand that now Yanjing's Pingzhi was running around, rich people were everywhere, and just now he saw a more luxurious car entering the Yanda campus.Why is Fang Jiming so low-key?If financial resources are used to calculate, Fang Jiming can drive a better car.But Fang Jiming chose a not-so-luxurious Mercedes-Benz.In terms of coolness, it's not as cool as a coupe, let alone a sports car.

"Rich people have strange tastes."

Zhu Jun thought.

In fact, it is not that Fang Jiming does not want to buy a better car, but that it is unnecessary now.

Among other things, for the price of a sports car, one can invest in starting a company, and it is clear how to choose a company.Even if he bought this Mercedes-Benz, Fang Jiming still felt a bit pained. More than 100 million can make a movie.But in order to do business, buying a better car is a must.

After all, most parts of China are different from Guangdong Province. In Guangdong Province, even a billionaire will drive an inconspicuous Crown.But in other places, many people only have 50, and they have to buy more than one million cars.If you don't go out with this style, it's hard to talk about business.It cannot be said that that kind of consumption is good, after all, each place has its own rules.Fang Jiming's value lies in the fact that it doesn't matter how much money you drive, what matters is whether you are capable or not.

Without strength, no matter how good a car you drive, you will not have enough confidence.

You have the strength, even if you want to drive an Alto, you have enough confidence.

Confident people do not need external objects to flaunt themselves, while unconfident people need external objects to reflect their "differentness".

This is the state, and not everyone can understand it, because many people pretend to be confident and face-saving, and in their understanding, this is the appearance of doing big business.

(End of this chapter)