People rely on the aid money to live in the courtyard

Chapter 325 Wisdom from Father

It was getting dark.

The supply and marketing cooperative is still dimly lit.

Just after eight o'clock, a salesperson started yelling.

"Let's leave the rest behind! It's time, it's time to get off work!"

"Hurry up, hurry up, come back tomorrow, how much effort can you make? We haven't eaten yet! If I don't get up tomorrow, you still can't buy it!"

"Then who! Don't mess around, buy it tomorrow, don't force me to do it!"

In the midst of discussions, intimidation, and driving away by the salesperson, the people in the supply and marketing cooperative finally suppressed their desire to buy and walked outside in a bustling manner.

After a busy day, Father Yu also breathed a sigh of relief. Usually, everyone is tight on money and doesn't have such a big desire to buy.

But this National Day is different. Now more than ten years have passed, and everything has been passed down from word to mouth. Everyone understands the meaning very well. The founding of the country represents stability and peace. The excitement of the National Day is no less than that of the New Year. Have a good time celebrating.

Tobacco, wine, tea and candy are indispensable for celebration.

Yu's father is a wine seller.

When he was free, his father's thoughts also returned to the family, and he felt something was wrong immediately.

Why hasn't that girl come over yet?
It's eight o'clock now, and it's getting dark!
Could it be that he didn't mean to leave after eating at someone's house?

Reminiscent of his daughter's carefree temper, Yu father felt that this was very possible.

He was a little angry.

Everyone is going to sleep, so they haven't left yet?Can't see people being impatient and rushing people?
After tidying up hastily, Father Yu hurried out of the supply and marketing cooperative.

As soon as he took two steps, he immediately turned around.

Take a closer look.

On the east side of the gate of the supply and marketing cooperative, a girl stood there with blank eyes, surrounded by a crowd of people, and she was the only one in a daze.

After all, she is her own daughter, her little lover in her previous life.

Father Yu's heart skipped a beat, and he hurried over to have a look, but Yu Haitang was still there not knowing what he was thinking, which frightened him.

"Girl, are you okay?"

Yu Haitang came back to her senses in a flash, she was stunned when she saw her father, and said, "It's okay, what can I do, I just feel that it's too stuffy inside, I saw you were busy, so I waited outside, just left and right Just stand for a while."

Father Yu frowned slightly, but he was used to this explanation. He waved his hand and said, "Let's go, let's go home first. I'm hungry after a busy day. Have you found a place to eat?"

Yu Haitang pursed her lips and said, "Dad, don't look at what time it is now. I want to eat, but do I have money? My mother just gave me [-] cents to buy some small gifts. I know you want to pick them up." Me, I bought a popsicle with the only three cents left for travel expenses. Now I can’t even afford a bowl of porridge or a deep-fried dough stick, and I don’t even have a penny!”

Now that the prices are clear, there is absolutely no way to fill your pockets, unless you reduce the price of the things you buy.

The corner of Yu's father's mouth twitched violently, he shouldn't have asked, he knew best about his own daughter.

It's not that you don't have money at the end of the month, but you have no money in the middle of the month!

"Everyone tells you to save some money, but if you don't listen, you think it's great to earn a few dollars, and you don't know what you're buying."

Yu Haitang sat on the back seat of the bicycle angrily and said, "Dad, let's go home quickly, I'm hungry!"

"You don't want to talk about it? If you don't want to talk about it, let your mother tell you when you get home!" Yu's father replied indifferently.

Yu Haitang became honest in an instant, she is such a beautiful big girl, she can't live like a human being at home, she is disgusted here, talked about there, and the way in the school unit is not good for my mother.

Hearing that there was no sound from behind, Yu's father also pedaled his bicycle and started to walk back. After the wheel steel turned twice, he started to get down to business, so he quickly asked, "Arranging your affairs, how are you doing?"

"what?"

Yu Haitang was distracted as soon as he calmed down, and was stunned by Yu's father's question.

Father Yu said angrily: "I said, the task assigned to you today! Didn't you forget it, girl?"

He was very suspicious in his heart, his daughter had been unreliable in doing things and had been taught by his mother all the time.

Dayin: Go to get close to Yi Chuanzong, you have to suffer when you ask someone to do something, but Yu Haitang is giving the host a face.

Yu Haitang looked a little flustered, and quickly began to think about the tasks arranged by Yu's father.

After thinking for a few seconds, she finally remembered.

Ask Yi Chuanzong if he knows the leaders of the housing management unit in the government unit, and whether they can change to a more suitable house due to the situation in their family.

She didn't ask about this at all!
Once chatting with Lou Xiao'e, she envied the baby in the womb, the man in the womb, the environment in the home, listening to the interesting stories in the factory yard, and talking about the new gadgets in the department store, how could she have the heart to ask such questions?

Yu Haitang was very flustered, and suddenly had a quick wit, and said, "Dad, do you know about the women's federation entering our rolling mill? Today I know what's going on!"

Father Yu replied calmly, "Oh."

Hearing his daughter's words, he knew that today's matter was destined to be forgotten!
Pay attention to your tone, and he will know that this little girl must be trying to fool her!

Yu Haitang didn't notice anything, and quickly said: "Actually, the culprit of this matter is that Yi Chuanzong. He went to the Women's Federation before and found out the acquaintances he knew there. That's why he has a big problem like yesterday. movement."

Father Yu's expression remained unchanged, he just listened quietly.

"And this matter is not over yet. He originally asked for leave today, but the director Yang of our rolling mill sent someone out to look for him. There were a hundred members of the security department just to find himself. It's okay, I'll be back before the end of get off work."

Yu's father's face became more serious, and the leader sent people to see this person, and then he came back well afterwards. It's not necessarily a matter of friendship, but at least there is a business, and there are intersections. An eighth-level fitter How can there be such an urgent work intersection with the factory director?

"However, this matter has nothing to do with him. When I was there, he seemed a little upset. It was not easy for me to ask such questions about our family. After all, he is not in the mood now."

"However, he can know people from the Women's Federation, and the leaders of the street office are also good. He also knows the director of the factory. I heard that he also knows people from the Ministry of Agriculture. It's normal to know people who manage housing in the unit. Isn't his family just Is it a single house?"

Father Yu nodded after hearing this. It is true that once this person's network is extended, it is difficult to go up to the sky, but it is easy to go down.It's also easy to lay flat.

Leaders are also human beings, and the things in life are indispensable. Even if a person has incomplete knowledge of various walks of life, there will always be complete knowledge in a circle.

"So, you just didn't ask about our family, did you?"

Yu Haitang's expression froze in an instant. If she asked, why was she talking so much?
Of course she couldn't say that, so she could only pretend to be impatient and explained: "Dad, how can I ask if someone is in a bad mood? If he doesn't respond, then he knows my intentions. Even if I don't open my mouth, it is considered rejected Once."

After speaking, Yu Haitang nodded quickly, as if she didn't ask because of this, but when she thought of that man, she couldn't help clenching her fists tightly.

She couldn't even describe her current mood. She was unwilling, unconvinced, disgusted, angry, and there was a faint fear that made her tremble a little.

But soon, Father Yu helped her clear up these messy thoughts.

"Even if it's not easy for him to ask, what about his wife? You were originally asked to ask his wife, but why do you have to ask him? How many secrets can they have? It's clear who they know, right? Yours These explanations, I think, you'd better explain them to your mother."

"Dad! You can't do this!"

With a coquettish cry, Yu Haiting hurriedly called out, "It's not that you don't know how much I hate that person. When I look at people, I always lower my face and look down. It's not that you don't know my temper. Can you bear it?"

"And the couple of them, I've told you about them, they can really make people's teeth ache when they get sour. There is also that man, who is always unruly, don't think he is stupid when you look at him lazily Everything is waiting, if I don't think about some of his words carefully, I can't even understand what he said, it's very ghostly."

"I haven't said anything yet, but I already know what I'm thinking. Today I just wanted to participate in an event, but this person even criticized me. I have never been angry like this in a factory. I Of course, I can only endure the discomfort in my heart and leave."

"Dad, you are so unrighteous. I have made such a big sacrifice, but you still have to collude with my mother to clean me up!"

Father Yu listened well at first, but his daughter acted like a baby and complained that he felt very comfortable. It was the last sentence, what is collusion?The two of them have a tacit understanding!
"I'll forgive you for what happened this time, if you dare to forget next time, see how I will deal with you!"

"Raising you so big, patting your ass and running away with an unknown young man, asking you to say something nice to the family and changing the house, but you push and procrastinate, it's not something that makes you lose face!"

"I think it's better to quickly let you go on a blind date and find someone!"

Yu Haitang said unconvinced: "No, I have to find it myself, so I don't want you to introduce me. What if I have someone I like in the future? Divorce the man you introduced? Just look at me Unhappy all your life?"

Father Yu sneered, and said, "Some people died of starvation, some died of illness, and I never heard of people dying of being unable to survive. How could I make you unhappy? You can find happiness yourself?"

"How many men do you know, a little girl? Can you tell good from bad, as a little girl? If your parents are not good at it, you will be cheated to death with your stupid appearance!"

Yu Haitang said unconvinced: "I don't care, I just want to find it myself, at worst, if I observe it for a few years, I can always find out who it is!"

Father Yu shook his head and persuaded earnestly: "Silly girl, how many years can you live? Life is not so easy. When you can see clearly, it will be too late!"

"No matter how many people you see, how can you have the eyes of your parents? If you get married at the age of 30, who will treat you as a treasure? At that time, you will not be able to make ends meet, you just see Open, you can only see it after you have suffered enough, okay, why are you thinking about suffering?"

Yu Haiting said stubbornly: "I don't care, anyway, I don't want to be like those housewives nowadays, submissive to their husbands, cleaning the house at home all day and getting involved in trivial matters, why?"

Father Yu chuckled and said, "Isn't your mother and I getting along well?"

Yu Haitang replied directly: "That's because you let mom!"

"This is life!" Father Yu said after finishing speaking, "Who wants to accommodate others? After all, there is one party who wants to accommodate. But this person, if you accommodate once, you may feel uncomfortable, and if you accommodate twice, you will feel even more uncomfortable." Comfortable, this person is not holding back all the time, there is always a time to vent."

Yu's father turned his head and glanced at Yu Haitang, and said, "It's like your temper, how many people can let you go all the time, if all your partners have this temper, how will you live this day? You have to understand your own shortcomings , in order to live a good life with others.”

"Dad knows it's hard. But there's a way around it."

Yu Haitang asked curiously: "What method?"

Father Yu said with a smile: "Look at the place where Dad works, the buyers are very anxious and confused. As for those of us who sell, it is also a bit difficult to deal with those who are entangled, chattering, and just ask if they want to buy." Emotions can also be impatient."

"If you can sell more, you will get a little more money. If you don't sell one or two items, it won't make much money if you don't sell them all. So we salesmen will not suppress our temper."

"We are all the same. The reason why those who buy are patient is because we are the guides and control the things in the store."

"There is always one of the two sides that has to be patient. Some things are added to make the buyer less hard-working. Even if we drive them away and scold them, they won't have too much emotion. At most, they will scold them back secretly, and come back happily and normally tomorrow. Buy, we are also happy to complete the transaction."

"It's the same when you're looking for a partner. There are always quarrels in life. I can understand that, so I never quarrel with your mother. Your mother will save face for me when she sees that I earn money to support my family."

Yu Haitang was very unconvinced and said: "Can't we women earn money to support our family?"

Yu's father replied directly: "Of course!" After changing the subject, he said, "Haitang, Dad doesn't mean that men must be better than women, or that women must be better than men. Dad is letting you understand how life is. kind of."

"You can be a buyer, or you can be a seller. You have to figure out how to live. Do you think your father hasn't fought with your mother before? Your sister should remember some, that's why she looks cute. You and I At that time, Mom fought twice every day, if I hadn’t realized it when I got older, and took a step back, how would you live this day?”

"Father supports you in finding your own happiness, but you also have to work hard for your own happiness. You don't just work hard to be happy, and take a step back to see the sea and the sky."

"Otherwise, you want to find a man who is capable, capable, excellent, and obedient to you. Do you think that kind of sissy character is the man you want? Do you think he is so right? Are you? A man who is vigorous, civil and military, mighty and domineering is obedient to you, which is inherently conflicting. Unless that man really loves you, is old, and knows how to coax people. "

"The world is so big, there are indeed such people. But Haitang, you must first get to know the people you know. The people you know may not be good enough, and you may not be able to catch up with good people. If you catch up with others, they may not necessarily like you, even if you do. You, but what if someone is married? You shouldn’t be the only one who likes this kind of man, right? What if you don’t like him? Do you only look at ability and money when it comes to emotional matters? This is not a way of life. "

"When you buy something for the first time, you will be nervous, expectant, and happy, but after you know more about it, you will find its shortcomings. After comparing many brands, you will find that you like others a little bit. Even if you buy it again tomorrow, you may think that the ones you saw yesterday were not good. Haitang, it is too difficult to be perfect. The mood of the first love is different from the second love. The more picky, the more picky, the more you understand. The more dissatisfied you are."

"Dad knows what you think. I don't object to your pursuit, but I also have a hard rule! You must get married before the age of 25! People have to pay for their mistakes, even if the person you marry doesn't like it, but after the hardships of life , while you are not too old, whether it is compromise or resistance, you still have a choice. At that time, you should know what you want, and you should be able to find your own happiness. You have to rely on one person to go through this life, not just one person."

Yu Haitang stared blankly at the shops passing by in the dark, as if looking at blurred figures, and then the people in front of him became clearer and clearer, and a face with slightly darkened skin appeared. Cold, but lazy in a blink of an eye, gradually becoming confusing.

(End of this chapter)