Xiaofubao was pampered in the chronology

Chapter 486 It's Obviously For You
"Stay by your side?" Bai Lu didn't understand the meaning.

Jin Bao on the side frowned slightly, what?Could it be that they want Big Brother to...

When the little girl was surprised, she only heard Song Xiaomei's father say: "Their future children don't need to have the full surname Song, but the first child must be named Song. If the first child is a daughter and the second child is a son, then the first child will be named Song." The son of the second child must also be named Song."

The smile on Su Jianmin's face froze instantly, and so did his wife Bai Lu.

"You want my family to marry Zhiyuan?" Bai Lu frowned, "This is absolutely not possible!"

Shen Mei said: "Don't be so excited, it's not a marriage, because I think so, you have several sons, right? I only have one daughter, we also want to grow old, I hope someone dies in a hundred years, Can ordinary people understand it?"

"It's not that I can't understand your thoughts, but in terms of the current social situation, being married is too hurt a man's self-esteem. I won't agree to Zhiyuan marrying, and I think he can't accept it either." Bai Lu said forcefully.

Shen Mei explained, "That's why I said it's not matrilineal. If they have two sons, the first son's surname can be Song, and the second son's surname is Su, right? How can this be considered matrilineal?"

The atmosphere became very awkward for a while.

Su Jianmin felt that what they meant was to marry into a family.

Thinking about what Zhiyuan meant, he asked, "Zhiyuan, what do you think?"

It was obviously the first time for Su Zhiyuan to hear such a statement, his brows were tightly frowned, and he looked very surprised.

After a while, after he digested all the information, he asked suspiciously: "I don't care if the child's surname is Song or Su, but Aunt Shen, you said that Xiaomei wants to stay with you. live with you?"

"It is of course best to be able to live together, but you young people have your own way of life, and you may not want to live with our elders. We have another house in Jinghai City. You and Xiaomei can live in it after you get married. "

When Shen Mei said this, Xiao Jinbao beside him couldn't help puffing out his cheeks.

Let the eldest brother live in the Song family's house, and the child must have the surname Song. Isn't this a marriage?
Once a man gets married, his family status is very low. The child he gives birth to takes the woman's surname, and the woman's parents are called grandparents.

Unless it is a particularly poor family, no one would want their son to be married and ridiculed by outsiders.

"Aunt Shen," Su Zhiyuan said, "I'm currently working in the oil field, and I don't plan to work and live in Jinghai City for the time being. If I marry Xiaomei, I will apply for a house with my superiors, and I should be able to allocate a house by then... "

Before he finished speaking, Shen Mei frowned and said, "Why are you so stupid? Didn't Xiaomei tell you about our family? Xiaomei's uncle is a deputy teacher-level cadre, and her uncle's unit is not bad. It is the unit that manages grain, oil, animal husbandry and non-staple food.

If you marry Xiaomei, it will be very easy for us to find a relationship to promote you to an agency to get a career establishment. "

Her husband, Song Zhuangxian, answered from the side: "Yes, Zhiyuan, the conditions in the oil field are so difficult. Do you want to stay there as a worker for the rest of your life? Working experience in the oil field is a good part of your resume, which shows that you have endured hardships." You are hardworking, but if you only want to be a worker, you will not be successful, and it is impossible for Xiaomei to stay in the oil field with you and endure hardships."

Seeing the resistance in Su Zhiyuan's eyes, he smiled and patted him on the shoulder, "I know that you may not listen to what I'm telling you now, but I'm really thinking about your future, and you will thank me in the future mine.

When you were young, with your passion and drive, you wanted to dedicate your youth to the country and the people. Does it take five years to go home?

Your parents and relatives are all in Jinghai City, but you live alone in a distant oil field. Your life is very short. If you are not there when your family needs you, you will only have infinite regrets in the future. "

Bai Lu was very angry at first, but after hearing Song Zhuangxian's long speech, she was a little shaken.

If she had a choice, she certainly hoped that Zhiyuan could go back to Jinghai City to find a lighter job. Who would want their children to roll in the dark oil every day, and it would take three to five years before they could go home for a few days during the holidays? ?

"Brother, I also want you to stay." Su Xiaosi couldn't help but said.

His third brother pulled him aside, "Mom and Dad are talking about business, Xiao Si, don't interrupt."

Su Xiaosi's eyes were flushed, "Don't you want to see the eldest brother every day, third brother? Anyway, I want to see him every day, just like seeing Jinbao every day, and the second brother... I think our family is the same as before. We can always meet each other, I am not willing to leave my brother."

Seeing his fourth brother's red eyes, Su Wennian also felt his nose sore, but he didn't say anything.

The eldest brother is an adult and should not be restrained. He has the right to pursue the life he likes.

If he feels that working in the oil field is meaningful and can realize the value of life, then he will support his elder brother's decision.

Jin Bao and her third brother have similar thoughts, although she is not willing to let her elder brother go...

"Listen, your younger brothers and sisters are reluctant to bear you, let alone your parents. Although they don't say anything, they definitely hope that you can stay in Jinghai City to work and live. Our family is so close, and we will love each other in the future. Wouldn't it be nice to have someone to take care of you? Isn't it?"

Su Zhiyuan clenched his fists in confusion, and after a while he turned his head to look at Xiaomei beside him, "Xiaomei, do you want to stay in Jinghai City too?"

"Well, Zhiyuan, my parents only have one daughter, and when they get old, I have to take care of them. Besides, we have been working in the oil field for so many years, and we have already dedicated our youth.

Now that we are all grown up, we are no longer middle school students who have just graduated, and we have to think about ourselves. "

Speaking of this, Song Xiaomei said again: "Zhiyuan, you just listen to my parents? They are all for your own good..."

"What's good for you?" The door was suddenly pushed open, Xu Damei stood outside the door, and said in a high voice, "It's really nice! It's for yourselves! You actually want Brother Zhiyuan to marry you into your Song family, Song Xiaomei, you unacceptable!"

For a moment, everyone was stunned, and everyone's eyes were focused on Xu Damei.

Lin Yulan looked embarrassed, and wanted to pull her daughter away, but Xu Damei's hand was holding on to the door, unwilling to leave.

She said loudly: "Brother Zhiyuan, don't listen to their fooling! You told me that 'I donate oil to the motherland' is not a slogan, you want to be a screw in the construction of the country, this is your ideal.

When the country is no longer short of oil, your dream will come true. At that time, you can be very proud to say that we will not be ridiculed as an oil-poor country. Although no one knows you, you are one of them. credit.

These are all you told me, have you forgotten? "

(End of this chapter)