Siheyuan: The Ambition of Sanzang

Chapter 196 152. Emotional expert?

"Why?" Duan Yizhen was even more puzzled after hearing Sanzang's words.

"Sister! Both parties in love are equal. She is not a charity, and she is not something that can be donated casually.

I'm afraid you also come with this kind of attitude in your usual family life,
I guess you never do chores like washing clothes and cooking at home! "

"Hey! Usually he rushes to do it. As soon as I start cooking, she criticizes me, saying that washing clothes will hurt my hands."

Sanzang shook his head after hearing this, "I'm afraid the food you cook can poison people to death, and the clothes you wash can't be cleaned either!"

"Hey! I didn't do these things when I was a girl. They were all done by the cook and the nanny at home."

"Understood, my aunt doesn't know how to cook. In fact, these things are not the most critical factors.

I guess you have never wanted to know what he likes, what he hates, and what he is thinking! "

"This... It seems that I really don't know! He has always bought me the things I like to eat and the clothes I like to wear."

"Hehe, I'm afraid you are not very friendly to his family. You probably have a domineering and condescending attitude when you see him usually!"

"This... I have never objected to him giving money to his parents, and I will ask him to give more.

During the holidays, I will also buy clothes and delicious food for his parents. "

"It's okay! It's not to the point of being incurable!"

"Then where is my problem?" Duan Yizhen already regarded Sanzang as an expert in emotional problems.

"Because my brother-in-law married you, his official career has been smooth, and he became a deputy director-level cadre."

"At the level!"

"Well! He is at the first level! He knows that his future and destiny depend on you, so no matter what you do to him and his family, he will not dare to resist and will endure everything.

Because the consequences of resistance will definitely be very serious, you will teach him to be a man every minute. "

"Giggle!"

"Sister! Don't laugh, if he is a broad-minded person and really loves you, you may grow old like this in your life!"

"Well! It seems that my sister can only live like this for the rest of her life!"

"Sister! You may be a little wishful thinking. If he is a person with ulterior motives, hehe! When your old man retires one day, your good days will come to an end."

"Does he still dare to divorce me?"

"He didn't dare to propose divorce first, because it would affect his future, and he would continue to carry out domestic cold violence against you, such as being cold, contemptuous, laissez-faire, alienated and indifferent to you.

I'm afraid that at that time, you will be so forced that you can't stand it, and you will file for divorce first, and then he will go back to find a young and beautiful female secretary or something. "

"What! How dare he?"

"Why didn't he dare! The old man will retire in two years, and you initiated the divorce with him, so he can pretend to be a victim.

At that time, he was just in his early 40s, and he was very powerful and good-looking. It was the golden age of a man, and he was chasing many young and beautiful girls. "

"Why is this again?"

"Because you have a good family background, high education, smart and beautiful! He has low self-esteem and can't recognize your excellence, or the brilliance of your body has been overshadowing him.

He needs to find a sense of self-superiority from more vulnerable women, such as the adoration of female secretaries. "

"Could it be because of this that you went to Jingru? Or maybe you've been hurt by a smart, beautiful woman from a good family background!
Could it be that you are also very inferior?But I can't see it! "

Sanzang laughed loudly when he heard this, "Sister! I'm helping you analyze the problem! Why are you talking about me again?"

"I just want to know your emotional experience, and see if you stinky men have the same virtue."

"What about me! It is impossible to be inferior in this life, because I believe in my ability, can completely control my own destiny, and have full confidence in my future.

20 years ago, I came to Yandu to look for relatives with five yuan and two catties of food stamps in my pocket. I started as a cleaner,
I didn't rely on anyone, and I got to where I am today by relying entirely on my own hard work.

I think 90.00% nine people can't do better than me. "

Duan Yizhen nodded, it was the first time she had heard about Sanzang's past, and she was full of sympathy for him.

Then he nodded appreciatively, and his old man praised him in front of her and elder brother many times, asking himself and elder brother to learn from him.

"It's not enough to say that I have been hurt by a woman of good family background, high culture, smart and beautiful,
When I was in college, I had a crush on such a senior sister, and when I went to confess to her, she refused.

She chose a brother who was a little more handsome than me and had a much better family background than me,

At that time, I had nothing and was a poor man, and I didn't resent her. Now our relationship is pretty good! "

"Why do I hear your words now with a sour taste inside and out, hehe, if I were your senior sister, I would definitely choose you!
I guess she must have a little regret in her heart now. "

"Oh why?"

"It's okay to tell you, you just said that only men understand men, which makes sense.

Similarly, only women understand women, and the so-called "rich families" like us are not so easy to enter.

I guess your senior sisters should respect their parents-in-law at first, and maintain the unity and harmonious relationship between sister-in-law and sister-in-law.
Down below, I have to take the children to do housework occasionally and serve men.

I guess she has been exhausted for a long time, and she is probably forced to smile outside, and she probably doesn't dare to betray her family casually now! "

Sanzang was thoughtful after hearing this, no wonder Li Luojin was so happy and unrestrained to see him.

"In fact, people like you are golden bachelors with simple family relationships and high incomes.

I don't know how comfortable it is for two people to live behind closed doors.

Only stupid women value family background and want to rely on their parents for help. I think your so-called first love, Senior Sister, is nothing more than that! "

"This... please be merciful, sister!"

"Okay! Let me praise you again! The times have changed, and you probably don't even know how dazzling your own light is now!

With strong financial resources, good looks, and simple family relationship, even a woman wants to fly to the fire.

I'm really envious of Jingru, it's better for women to be simpler and more innocent, you probably also like her for this! "

Sanzang nodded.

"This is probably the so-called 'If you don't fight, you fight. If you fight, you don't fight. If you don't fight, there's nothing in the world that can compete with you'!

Even if you change your mind in the future, I'm afraid you can't bear to abandon Jingru! "

"Sister! How could I change my mind? I am a simple and good man!"

"Hehe! I'm not Jingru, I will believe your nonsense? Do you really think that your clothes are perfect?

Let me ask you, what happened to your Japanese tutor? "

"This... Sister! Sister! You will be my own sister from now on! Point and hit!"

"Okay! You said it yourself, I didn't force you! Then what should you do if you tell me about me?"

"You are so smart, do you still need me to teach you?"

"Hehe! I'm in a mess now, can't I heal myself!"

"Okay! You can try to find out what kind of person your brother-in-law is. If it's the first kind, you need to change yourself. The two of you should communicate more and live a good life.

If it is the second type, you need to expose his true colors as soon as possible and stay away from him, otherwise you will be the one who will suffer the most in the future.

I also don't want to think too badly of my brother-in-law. "

"Then how should we try?"

"You pretend to be drunk when you get home today, and see if he will really come over to greet you, make you hangover soup, wipe your face and so on, and let you have a good rest.

Usually do some housework within one's ability, try to communicate with him in an equal tone, try to change for a while, and then see his reaction!
If he remains indifferent, there is something really wrong with him.

If he responds positively to your response, it means there is still hope! "

"Will it be too much trouble?"

"Sister! If it is confirmed that it is the first case, you will put down your high profile in the future and treat him and his family with an equal attitude. He will do these small things willingly!"

"Okay! My sister will listen to you!"

(End of this chapter)