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Chapter 19 The Five Realms of Social Thinking (2)

When you work for three to five years, you may see a new employee, and you can analyze what kind of person he is in a short time.From childhood to high school, it is easy for your parents to see through your thoughts, and when you go home after working for a few years, you often find that your parents no longer have this magic power, but communicate with you on an equal footing, and even start to ask you about things.

Some fathers have broad knowledge and have reached the state of chest and valleys early. Such fathers can give their children a sense of reliability and wisdom for a long time. Children are willing to communicate and discuss more with their fathers when encountering problems after many years of work.

And some parents are indeed very ordinary people, unable to give any valuable advice about their children's social affairs.In this case, parents should not point fingers too much.

This matter is not good or bad, it is just an objective statement.

For Lu Ling, he has barely touched the threshold of the fourth realm "Unfathomable".

Through studying and working part-time as a psychological counselor in the past few years, it is difficult to make progress now.

It should be noted that these five realms only represent the level of experience and social thinking, and have no direct relationship with IQ.There are too many people with super high IQ but low EQ.

Moreover, this is not about character and morality.For example, "There are hills and valleys in the chest", like other realms, are all neutral words, indicating that this person is not ordinary.

Generally, those who can do this step are the industry leaders.

Senior business managers, deputy sales directors, corporate executives, senior police officers, etc., can generally reach the third level, enough to be comfortable in society.

Some people say that people are divided into three realms, whether they see mountains as mountains, see whether mountains are not mountains, or see mountains as mountains.

Lu Ling felt that it was too difficult for ordinary people to understand, so he created a realm of his own, just to make it easier for him to understand.

In this world, there are ten thousand ways to become a capable person, but they are roughly divided into two directions.

technical and social orientation.

Technology is very simple, that is, technology is paramount, and you don’t need to understand anything else. You can even become a character like Einstein.Even if you can't wear pants, even if you can't even say hello, it doesn't matter.For example, Wei Shen, who is very popular recently, doesn’t need to think about mundane things, he just needs to do research, and he can be very good. Everyone respects him, and he can realize his own life value.

However, there are very few who are purely technical. Nowadays, doctors, programmers, etc. seem to be technical, but they still have to be human to a certain extent, so that they can go further in technology.Even if a doctor has achieved the level of "flying knife", he will be more human, and he will be able to gain more respect.

Social orientation is what most people do, because almost everything in your life is about contacting people.

How to reach people?How to gain the favor and trust of others?How to see the opponent's intention?How to avoid your own losses?
And so on, and so on, in short, this is all social orientation.

Talking about this, it doesn't mean that Lu Ling is better than others.

If you have a high self-esteem, it is easy to cause problems. Pride and arrogance are absolutely not advisable, and arrogance and arrogance are also a manifestation of low levels of social thinking.

In addition to these five realms, a complex animal like a human has many other bonuses.

Industry experience, industry status, social status, technical ability, background, physical ability, social relationship, age, etc. are all very important. These all need time and experience to accumulate, and it is too difficult to think quickly, and these can Feed back the advancement of social thinking.

Yes, even age itself is still important.

Some people don't even have the ability to fart, but they are old and qualified, and they can rely on their old age to sell their old age, so that you can't get up.

If you are capable, accurate in seeing people, do things well, and behave well in the world, the leader may still give the hole above you to his nephew.

This is like a novel about cultivating immortals. You think that you are better at the foundation building stage than the Qi refining stage, but in fact, the Qi refining stage may carry the top-level talismans given by his parents, and you will die if you throw one.

Not only that, but the five realms of social thinking are definitely not irreversible. Affected by subconsciousness, status, and knowledge, it is normal for people with high realms to be deceived by those with low realms.

For example, it is easy for children to deceive people, because adults subconsciously believe in children; another example is that it is generally difficult for the police to interrogate criminals, because when criminals are interrogated, the psychological defense line is full, and the police with rough chests cannot interrogate innocent people at all. Romantic people are also normal.

Therefore, it is still necessary to analyze the problem dialectically.

Speaking of this, in fact, these changes in realms are very, very tiring.It is a very painful process to transform one's knowledge into one's own growth, during which there are countless times of reshaping the three views.

There is no distinction between good and bad in the five realms. There are quite a few big men who are already unpredictable, and finally tired of the complexity of society, indulge in the mountains and rivers, and dream of becoming an innocent person.

The simpler it is, the happier it is.

I don't know how many adults have always missed their childhood.

Why do you say that it is easy to practice within the six doors?The main reason is that I have seen too much warmth and coldness in the world.

The old police officers who came across the case of a baby being frozen to death that Lu Ling encountered here could calmly deal with it. Although everyone was jealous, they would not be dazzled by the anger generated by this kind of incident.But if this matter is handled by some naive people, it is estimated that they will suffer from mental illness.

Why are more and more people afraid of society?Because the society is too complicated, it is difficult for a group of well-protected students to suddenly face a large number of mature and experienced people.Maybe I have a higher level of knowledge, but I am still squeezed and bullied for no reason.This makes everyone have no sense of expectation for social interaction, and has an instinctive feeling that social interaction "does more harm than good", and naturally fears social interaction.

But this does not mean that people with low realms must be kind, some people are stupid and bad.There are good people and bad people who are innocent; there are good people and bad people who are unfathomable.

Thinking is a very complex cognitive process, which is the overall activity of the cerebral cortex. Academically speaking, it refers to the implicit cognitive operation or mental operation of using concepts, representations, symbols, words, propositions, memories, concepts, and beliefs.

The production of everyone's social thinking is a very complicated existence.

Lu Ling has studied and studied personality psychology for many years, and understands that everyone is very complicated.

This sentence seems simple, but in fact many people don't understand it.

Many young people have never considered one thing before falling in love or online dating: the other party has lived for 20 years, has experienced countless things, and is also a very complicated person.

Dazzled by love, social thinking plummets, realm falls, and I feel that the other party is good everywhere, and then discover the other party's problems during a few months of getting along.

From many psychological studies, it is believed that childhood can already have a great impact on a person's personality, and every adult is not as simple as it seems.Lu Ling has always understood that the more he grows, the more he must keep a low profile.

This world has always been like this and has never changed.

(Please read the following author's words in this chapter)
　This chapter is the core point of view of this book. Perhaps people should not be divided into realms, but realms have always existed.

　　There are specific figures for the poverty line, such as the very specific minimum living allowance line for Wang Xia’s family.

　　There is also a line in the starting standard for tax payment.

　　Realm does not exist directly, but exists objectively.

　　This is also my summary of so many years of social experience.

　　This book, as I said, will be more enjoyable because the protagonist is stronger.

　　But the better the police text, the more unreasonable it must be.This is not documentary literature, it is fiction
　　I hope that the book I write is something that everyone can read and understand, and it is valuable, not the kind that is copied from all over the world and forgotten after reading it.So, I know that writing like this is controversial, but I still have to write it out.

　　Accept controversy, don't scold too harshly.

　　
　
(End of this chapter)