My whole family crosses the farm gate from the future

Chapter 209

"For example, in my family, concubines are not allowed in my family, and no concubines are allowed. Unless a man is forty and childless, he can give priority to adoption, and the adoption must also be a child whose parents have died. Just ask your parents.

People with strict family traditions are very strict with their sons. The sons raised in this way may be more dignified and less interesting, but they will not be promiscuous.

People of the fourth rank and above can look at it, and the fourth rank depends on whether there are many officials in the family, even if it is a family with more than three county magistrates of the seventh rank, it can be considered.

It's best not to think about kissing and kissing, it's not aimed at anyone specifically, but it's inappropriate.You think, this aunt has become a mother-in-law, can the request be the same?

Mothers always feel sorry for their sons, so the niece must be in the back, and a polite mother-in-law is fine, but this relative is difficult to deal with. It is not appropriate to say that it is serious, but it is not appropriate to say that it hurts my heart. It will inevitably hurt after a long time. Give birth to resentment.

My royal family has family rules, the blood does not flow backwards, and I don't consider getting closer. "

Wenwen glanced at Ma Shi, and saw that her face was a little worried, but she was not afraid.

"My grandfather told me that getting closer by kissing only fulfills the wish of the daughter-in-law, but it actually harms the interests of the family.

Marriage between two surnames is not only about selecting character and family background, but also about the alliance of interests between the two races.

An excellent first daughter can marry a more outstanding son and family, and the benefits brought to her own family are maximized. This way will undoubtedly be cut off if the child is excellent, and it would be a pity if one party has mediocre qualifications .

Marrying a wife and marrying a virtuous person, a good daughter-in-law's far-sighted vision and insight are the most important.

It is a matter of mutual benefit for a daughter to marry well, and it is also an important measure to support brothers. This is a family matter and not a personal matter. "

"well said."

The old lady Zhou breathed a sigh of relief, she was very satisfied with Wenwen's answer, she had considered all aspects, her mind was mature and stable, and she had enough long-term vision.

"If the son who kisses and kisses is excellent, can you choose?"

Mrs. Ma made no secret of her thoughts, hoping that her daughter would marry back to the Ma family and support her natal family.

"Someone proposed marriage when I was in the village, but my second grandfather firmly refused, why?
It's because most of the advantages are taken advantage of. With my father's ability, I can find a better marriage if I wait a little longer, so why not do it.They are all people who love their daughters, and there is nothing wrong with hoping that their daughters will marry well. "

"You didn't answer my question."

Ma Shi has a bit of a temper and doesn't understand at all.

"With Xiaoya's family background, appearance and talent, at least the top three scholars are worthy of it, if it's not for this fame, let's forget it.

I'm talking about four-rank officials and above, and I personally won't consider those below.Whoever marries the eldest daughter of the Zhou family is a blessing, so why should she marry at a low price.

Marriage is a good marriage between two surnames, not a relief.

I came to the capital as a village girl, and I know better than you that the hardships of poor students are not in talent and ability, but in resources and connections. Why does the Wang family want to do business, because only benefits can attract cooperative families to come to the door.

This is an opportunity that my father only has when he is capable enough to make others look up to him.

The Wang family used the strength of the whole family to support the students.With an excellent son, how many opportunities can there be.

How should Xiaoya deal with her marriage, she licked her face and went back to her mother's house to beg for mercy, give the men a chance, give the uncle and sister-in-law a chance, why? "

Wenwen confronted Ma Shi with a very tough attitude.

"The Zhou family has a century-old family, why should the eldest daughter be so wronged and ask for perfection to support her husband's family, why can't she find a marriage that is well-matched, and insist on carrying the burden and burden of the whole family, this is not loving her daughter, but selfishness.

Xiaoya is the eldest daughter of the Zhou family. Grandpa and grandma only count when they say it. Others say it doesn't count. The imperial concubine also specially asked that if someone chooses, you must tell her first, so that she can help inquire.The eldest son of the Zhou family is only this baby Gada, so he must not feel wronged. "

Wenwen slapped and slapped, and immediately slapped back what Ma Shi was going to say next.

Even if Mrs. Ma could withstand the pressure from her in-laws, she could not withstand the pressure from the imperial concubine.

Qian turned around the two of them, then returned to the old lady, winked at her mother-in-law, nuzzled her lips, and quietly extended her thumb.

It means that the granddaughter-in-law you chose is like you, she has a tough temper.

The old lady Zhou pursed her lips and her eyes were full of smiles, not to mention how proud she was.

"Ah... yes, the imperial concubine loves Xiaoya."

After Ma Shi said this dryly, he shut his mouth, but his expression was very bad.

Wenwen didn't mean to beat the dog in the water, and the mother-in-law still wanted to show some face.

She turned her head and smiled at Mrs. Zhou again, "My mother called me back today, saying that she has a crush on the son of a fourth-rank family member, and the man is working in the palace.

I looked at and said to the girl from our clan, do you think you want to find a chance for the wives to meet and get to know each other? "

"Okay, who is it, I will ask your father-in-law to find out."

Wenwen told her, and then said again, "Xiaoya's matter is not urgent, let's have a look first, and it doesn't matter whether it is a civil official's family, or a military general's family can also be considered.

The key is good character. For example, the family of a military general takes the civil service route, and there are many military generals like my second uncle, and not all of them go to the battlefield. "

"Yes, I think so too. I just hope that she will be safe and happy. For Xiaoya's marriage, your grandpa and I must personally select someone to rest assured."

"That's natural, we need to inquire more."

"Okay, I have to thank your mother for the matter of the relatives and daughters, the second child, you can handle this matter."

Mrs. Zhou glanced at Mrs. Ma, her complexion was not very good, so she directly ordered Mrs. Qian to do something.

"Okay, these are all names and surnames, you leave it to me, and I will handle it neatly for you."

"If it's done, I'll add makeup to the girl too, so I can't let it go to waste."

"That's a good feeling."

Mrs. Qian also smiled happily, and sighed inwardly, as a sister-in-law, she only remembers your mother's family, not her in-law's family.

I would rather wrong my daughter than hesitate, what are you trying to do, what good can the Ma family bring to Brother Yang, who has been a fourth-rank official for a lifetime, what a fart.

Qian shi despises Ma shi in his heart for being unclear, but he still smiles generously and joyfully on his face.

Everyone was chatting happily, but Ma Shi was mostly silent, or just responded with a word, and he was not very good at talking.

Mrs. Ma sat for a while and found an excuse before leaving. Mrs. Zhou sighed and shook her head.

"She wanted to marry Xiaoya back to Ma's house. She took Xiaoya back to her mother's house several times, and deliberately let them get in touch, but Xiaoya didn't like her cousin, and she was angry with this mother and daughter. You said If she can't figure it out like this, can I rest assured?"

Wenwen smiled and lowered her head without saying a word, and did not participate in this topic. Others can help, but she is a daughter-in-law and granddaughter-in-law, so she cannot.

(End of this chapter)