My whole family crosses the farm gate from the future

Chapter 159 Teaching
The Zhou family has come to discuss marriage with the Wang family, this is the most important thing.

Zhou Hui only thought about marrying Wenwen. If his wish could not be fulfilled, Zhou Hui might really leave the Zhou family behind.

The Zhou family also attached great importance to this matter, worried that Mrs. Ma's stepmother did not do well, and specially asked her second daughter-in-law, Mrs. Qian, to talk with Li Hui, expressing their importance.

How dare Li Hui decide for herself, she actually doesn't know much about the rules of getting married, so she still has to invite her mother-in-law out.

Mrs. Wang looked at the two daughter-in-laws of the Zhou family, and responded with a smile: "It stands to reason that both of you wives are people with status and orders, and being able to come to my house is also a compliment to my old lady.

But I only have one granddaughter, who was raised by me since she was a child. If it wasn't for Brother Hun, I wouldn't have let her marry into a wealthy family, or I wouldn't have wiped her face.

But Hunzi was also raised by me, and I couldn't bear his disappointment. I don't have any other special conditions. Three matchmakers, six hires, and eight sedan chairs are hired to be the right lady. "

"Of course."

Qian quickly apologized and laughed.

"One more thing, my girls don't accept concubines. If you don't like it, you can divorce. My family can afford a daughter."

"Yes, I can make the decision and agree to you. My mother-in-law can agree to this point."

Mrs. Qian agreed without saying a word. This was what Zhou Hun promised in front of the whole family, and it was agreed by An Guogong and Mrs. Zhou.

Zhou Hui traded the Zhou family's guilt towards him in exchange for this condition for Wenwen, and put an end to the situation that he can't control himself in the future.

"The last one, my Wang family has the right to decide and participate in the matter of Hunzi and Wenwen. After all, I raised the child, so it is not too much for me to ask.

They are doing well, my old lady is only happy and will never hold back, but if your Zhou family treats my children badly, I will never let it go. "

Mrs. Wang did not mention any conditions for gold, silver and jewelry, all of which were for the sake of her two children.

"Old lady, don't worry."

Mrs. Qian respected the old lady more and more, she didn't make any troubles, she supported the child everywhere, and she made the villain herself, so as not to make the child difficult to be a human being.

Things went smoothly, Mrs. Wang understood the rules and the process of getting married.

A serious marriage is a step-by-step process, first verbal agreement, and then please come to the door to propose marriage, and there is a handwritten marriage letter, which is written by the elders, and you can't go wrong with any of them.

After all the details have been discussed, the official media will be invited to propose marriage, otherwise it would be a slap in the face.

Mrs. Ma just echoed what Mrs. Qian said, but his attitude was very polite, but not too positive, which could be seen slightly.

Although Mrs. Wang repulsed the Zhou family in her heart, she also knew that Hunzi liked Wenwen. Compared with Erlang, who didn't know Genjiao's temperament, this one was raised by herself, and she knew that she could turn to the Wang family in her heart.

What's more, this marriage is not as simple as a marriage of two children, but a matter of two clans.

Once the details are settled, the official media will choose a good day to come to propose marriage.

The old lady came to talk to Wenwen alone.

"grandmother."

Wenwen is carving wood, carving Sanyang Kaitai, and it is almost finished. This is the best work she has carved in the past few years. It is full of spirituality, and there is a feeling that she has finally opened up the two channels of Ren and Du.

"They're gone, it's all agreed."

"Ah."

"Wenwen, your mother helped you with the dowry list. It was almost done before, but now there are not many things missing."

"I know."

"Are you wronged?"

The old lady looked at her with some distress.

"It's not a grievance to say that I'm a high climber. If it weren't for our family raising Hunchun, our family would really be a high climber.

Now I seem to understand why the daughter of a wealthy family sacrificed for the family.

I didn't understand this fast before, but this time the Zhou family and the Wang family deepened their cooperation, and I suddenly understood. "

Wenwen showed a peaceful smile.

"Grandma is sorry for you."

"It's okay, think about it, you raised Hunchun, anyway, I know the basics, I can still hold on, if another person really bullies me, can my father still help me fight every day?

My younger brother is still young, and I don't know when he will have a future.At any rate, I still have feelings for Hunchi.

The Zhou family thinks that our family's kindness can give me some points, and I also hope that the Wang family can become stronger in my heart, and will be my waist in the future. It is the same to go to other houses, right? "

"It's the way it is, the Zhou family owes our family, as long as you don't make big mistakes, the Zhou family will never treat you badly.

The opportunity is given to you, you have to seize it firmly, the most important thing is to please the old lady, the old man and the eldest son, and the second daughter-in-law Qian is a smart person, you have to make friends, but your mother-in-law Ma, respect Just do not offend.

It's useless even if you try to curry favor with her, because Hunchi robbed her son's resources and contacts.

As long as the two of you stand firm and help your younger brothers and sisters, bad things will turn into good things.

There are no permanent enemies or permanent friends in this world. That's why our two families are married. "

Mrs. Wang has seen the world, and she understands the deep meaning of this very well.

"I remember."

"I went to the matter where you are not allowed to mention kindness, don't mention a word, what you have to do, seize the opportunity to gain a foothold, let the Zhou family see your value and create more benefits for the Zhou family, there is no end to the kindness become enemies.

But in turn, the people and things that give support and benefits to our family are different. No matter how close Zhou Hui is to us, his surname is Zhou and he is the Zhou family. Only you can thread the needle and make the relationship between the two go further. "

"Grandma, don't worry, I have figured it out."

"Well, I reckon that the old man will allow you to come in because he is optimistic about you and may want you to be the clan's wife. After all, Huizi is the eldest son and grandson.

I found out that the Zhou family is housed by two daughter-in-laws together, which also implies the old lady's balance technique. The Zhou family needs a future clan wife, otherwise there will be changes in the long run. "

Mrs. Wang held her granddaughter's hand and thought carefully for her.

"I don't have a good impression of Mrs. Ma, nor is it bad, but she definitely can't be a clan wife, and she's not as smart as Mrs. Qian.

It is an opportunity for you. Although the clan wife is very hard, she still has the right to speak.

It's not easy for a woman in this life. If she wants to live with her head held high, besides relying on men, she has to strive for herself.

My Wang family girl has never relied on men alone, but has to fight for her own breath. "

"I understand."

"Don't take what Huizi said about not taking concubines too seriously, unless he can't leave you, beauty will fade eventually, but ability will not.

If you want to live a good life, you must make a man inseparable from you. This is not based on beauty, but on your talent, mind and means, and in all aspects. Leaving you is like breaking a limb. I love you and rely on you.

It is very important for husband and wife to walk shoulder to shoulder. The support of your natal family is only one aspect, but not for a lifetime. The only thing you can rely on is yourself.

The Lin family was pretty good when I married your grandfather, much better than the Wang family, but so what.

I still have to work hard on my own. The Lin family and my brothers can't replace me in life, nor can they make me live a happier life. A good marriage doesn't mean a good life. The road has to be walked by myself. "

"Yes, Grandma, I made a note."

Wenwen took it seriously in her heart.

(End of this chapter)