Mo Yanliang

The little lady with a round face and a chubby face has just become a mother, so she is so gentle no matter how you look at it.

He was clearly talking harshly, but it still felt soft and soft, without any deterrent effect.

Xia Yueliang sat up, leaned on the head of the bed and looked at her, said with a smile: "Let's not talk about these disappointing things, I was tossed about by Gu Yannan, and I didn't catch up with my little nephew."

Mentioning this, Xia Fanshuang's anger rose immediately.

"What are you washing, although the baby returned safely, it seems like a different person.

He was so well-behaved before, but now he has become very clingy and crying. Except for Tamir and me, everyone else would cry if they looked at him more.

I found a wet nurse for him again, but he refused to drink a sip. He has been forced to drink some goat milk these days, and he seems to have lost weight.

To take care of him, Tamir has not slept for several nights.

Now the father and son are sleeping soundly, I was worried about you and afraid of disturbing them, so I took the time to come over and have a look.

But it's not a problem to always be like this! "

Noble girls in Fengguo are not happy to breastfeed in person. Xia Fanshuang has been educated like this since she was a child. Xia Yueliang knows that it is difficult to change her ideas.

Therefore, she had never thought of persuading Xia Fanshuang to feed the little prince herself, anyway, the wet nurse had already arranged it, so he would never be hungry.

It's different now. For babies who have just been born for a few days, breast milk is the best choice.

"Second sister, the little nephew refuses to accept a wet nurse, so have you never thought about feeding him yourself?"

"I...feed it myself?" Xia Fanshuang really didn't think so.

"Isn't it natural for mothers to feed their children? Who can afford a wet nurse when women from ordinary families give birth to children?"

Xia Fanshuang was a little confused: "But I don't seem to have..."

"If you don't feed it, it will definitely be gone. When you go back later, let the small kitchen cook some soup for you. Try drinking more.

If it still doesn't work, then ask the imperial physician to prescribe a prescription for you, anyway, you can't starve your little nephew. "

Once she conceived in October and gave birth, the most important person in Xia Fanshuang's heart was of course her son, and her parents, brothers and husband had to lean back.

"Then I'll try it when I get back, it's definitely not okay for the baby to drink goat's milk all the time.

But..."

She squinted at Xia Yueliang: "Every time I feel that something is wrong with you, you will always have various arguments to convince me.

But how do you explain this time?A girl who has not yet left the cabinet even knows how to raise children. "

Xia Yue sneered and said: "What's so strange about this, there are so many women in the world, not all of them are talented women who are educated, but there are many women who have been mothers.

There are so many servants in our mansion and Banchi Villa, and they give birth to children every year, even if they listen, they will listen.

There is a woman in Banchi Villa who has given birth to more than a dozen children, and what she likes most is talking to others about childbearing. Do you think she has enough experience? "

Xia Fanshuang did not have a mother-in-law, and her mother Luo Shi was not around, so of course she was interested in raising children.

"Then, according to my situation, pick up something useful and talk about it."

Of course there are many servants in Taishi Mansion and Banchi Villa, and many children are indeed born every year.

But Xia Yueliang is a girl who has not left the cabinet after all, how could they talk about having children in front of her.

Even the woman who gave birth to more than a dozen children was invented by her.

The so-called experience all came from her in her previous life, so there is no problem in giving Xia Fanshuang a few words of advice.

"There are still many advantages to feeding the children personally. Even though they are young and ignorant, they are actually emotional.

If you feed your little nephew yourself, there will be more opportunities for mother and child to get along with each other, and he will be very close to you in the future. "

Xia Fanshuang agrees with this statement.

The noble ladies in the capital of Fengguo are like this. After giving birth, they are handed over to the wet nurse to feed them. As a result, when the child grows up, they have a deep relationship with the wet nurse.

On the contrary, for one's own mother, respect is often greater than affection, and they are not as affectionate as mother and child in common people's families.

At the beginning, she was similar to her mother. Although the wet nurse was sent away early, in her mind, she was more gentle and kind than her mother.

She had worked so hard to have a son, so of course she didn't want to be compared to a wet nurse.

"Your words make sense. In the future, I will not only feed the baby myself, but also take care of his diet and upbringing myself."

"Everything has to be measured, I know your temper very well, and you will overdo things if you are not careful.

Boys are different from girls, and they should not be raised too delicately. "

In fact, in her opinion, girls should not be raised too delicately, let alone be too obedient.

Being too delicate is easy to be annoying, and being too obedient is easy to be bullied.

Xia Fanshuang was a little confused.

"The baby is still young..."

"The child grows up very fast, and the little nephew is the eldest son of King Yasu, and will help his father to defend the land and govern the country in the future.

If you make him coquettish because of your love, how will he stand up for the family in the future, and how can he sit firmly on the throne? "

Xia Fanshuang pouted: "If I say something casually, you will immediately reply with ten or eight sentences.

Instead of scolding me like this, teach me how to raise children. "

Xia Yueliang said: "As a mother, the most important thing is to take good care of the child's life.

In addition, you also have to be strict with yourself, read more books and learn more skills, so that your children can be influenced by what they see and hear, and be a person who likes to learn.

Also, you must not haggle over every detail in front of your children. A woman with a small belly can easily raise a son with the same small belly. "

Xia Yueliang is also going all out, wishing she could teach Xia Fanshuang all her parenting experience in her previous life.

Ahri is beautiful and smart, but what everyone loves the most is his personality.

If the little nephew can be like him and be a cheerful boy, it will only be good for his future.

Xia Fanshuang frowned, this is too difficult...

She herself is not a smart person, and her personality is not so straightforward. How should she raise her son?

"Third sister, in fact, I think it's okay for me to take care of the baby's life, but it's okay to leave his upbringing to Tamir.

He is the father of the baby, wouldn't it be better for him to raise it himself? "

Xia Yue choked coldly.

In her previous life, Yan Jingshen seldom went home, so the matter of raising the children naturally fell on her.

In order to educate Ari well, she also tried her best.

But even though she has tried her best, Ari is good enough, but there are still things that are not satisfactory.

The growth of a boy cannot be separated from his father. This was said by the elders, and she often thought so too.

If Yan Jingshen had been with their mother and son all the time, perhaps she would have lived a more relaxed life, and Ari would have been even better and more likable.

But when she was just teaching about parenting, she forgot that her little nephew had a father, and Li Yuanyu was responsible for his upbringing.